Adding on to the bad news...

We've been TTC #2 for a while now, about a month ago we found out that DH has low sperm count (12M per ML) and I just got my own results back. My FSH and E2 are normal, but I had a HSG today and found out I have one blocked tube.

I haven't been able to stop crying. We had our DS within a few cycles 5 years ago, I wonder if he's our miracle baby.

I don't know what to do. What does this mean? Anyone have any experience to share?

I've been so good on my LE veggie diet, exercising, and all that. Now it all just feels like a cruel joke.

I'm 36 and DH is 37, not sure if time is even on our side.

I'm so down.

Hang in there sweetie. I know it feels like you are in a lonely place, but know it is just temporary. Things seem bad right now, but they are not as bad as they appear. This can all be worked out.

Does your doctor have a plan to unblock your tube? If that is all, I'm sure they can fix it. You might need some meds to help things along a bit, but I'm sure this can be recovered soon.

Take heart. TTCing can be rough. Lord knows I'm in the thick of it to- on cycle 9. My situation is different, but I too am struggling. It will get better. It always does. Know we are here for you if you need to vent.

I am praying that you get your next bundle of joy soon [emoji8].


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XXforhubby, your reply made me bawl even harder. No one knows we're TTC, you ladies are the only ones I share with.

It's so hard trying to stay optimistic when it just feels like the odds are stacked against us. If it's not one thing it's another.

I just had my HSG a few hours ago, performed by a radiologist. The next step is tol discuss the results with my ob/gyn and I guess she'll refer me to a RE. The radiologist said that all I need is one open tube and this is surmountable. She says she sees it a lot. But I think the radiologist was just trying to make me feel better because I was a weeping mess on the table.

I have one blocked tube, I think it's the right that is open. I consulted Dr. Google and it seems that Clomid is often prescribed so that at least one egg is released on the good side. But we also have low sperm count with DH. So it's a double whammy.

I can relate to how you feel. I also have one blocked tube. That is an easy fix! IF your hormone levels are good then that is great news!! I am sure there are supps your DH can take to help his count also. Hugs!!

Ask Atomic and NBP what DH can take to increase numbers and quality of sperm. Then wait and see the RE. He/She will tell you the next steps.

My hairdresser had the same thing. They opened her blocked tube, gave her Clomid, a trigger shot to help release the egg, and she is pregnant with BG twins after trying unsuccessfully for 18mo at 37yrs of age! This is her first pregnancy by the way. She married her DH 2 years ago.

Try and relax as much as you can. It feels so uncertain now, but I know in my heart this will get fixed. You WILL have another baby. Hold onto that right now [emoji8][emoji179]!!


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I'm so sorry! But as XX says, it can absolutely be fixed/solved one way or another. DH's sperm count can potentially be improved as well.

I too have been TTC a while with no luck and have an RE appt in a few weeks. Statistically, having a specific fertility issue that can be treated is better than unexplained fertility. Getting help is the best thing you can do!

Thanks for all the support ladies. I'm feeling better after a night's rest. I wonder if I had a blocked tube all along and just didn't know it. I'm thinking that's likely.

djmommy, are you TTC #2? Were you able to get pregnant before with one blocked tube?

Maiden - Completely agree. Knowledge is power and allows for a plan to address the situation. We started testing after 3 cycles TTC and am so glad we did.

DH had high WBC in his SA and after more testing they found he has a UTI. Aside from count, everything else (motility, morphology, PH, etc was normal). He's on antibiotics to take care of the infection and Fertility Blend vitamins to give him a boost.

I was reading more online and it seems clomid or femara is often prescribed when there is only one tube open. Anyone have experience with this?

I had an ovarian ectopic pregnancy in 2012 snd it's only since then I can't conceive so I wonder if maybe I have a blocked tube, too. Unfortunately, the EP was on my right ovary, and I rarely (maybe 1-2x a year) O from the left. So if my right tube is blocked it would certainly make sense - we haven't TTCed in a month when I Oed from the left, AFAIK. So I'm very much hoping some clomid/femara will stimulate my left ovary. It is often something to try for at least one cycle before attempting to open a blocked tube.

My DF has issues too, including low count I'm pretty sure. It sucks! But I am SO thankful for modern medicine. I think it's likely your DH's sperm will be greatly improved after the infection is cured.

Hubs sperm numbers can fluctuate. It may have just been a bad batch. THe HSG actually helps to unblock tubes sometimes, hoping that is the case.

I had 3 kids after 36!! FX it will happen for you soon!

If you do a search there are many gals on here who have had a tube removed and gone on to conceive that way. Coralsky immediately comes to mind!

Atomic, thanks for your note.

It seems the usual protocal in such cases is for the doc to prescribe clomid to stimulate egg production on the good side. I'm weary of taking clomid as I prefer a singleton. Thoughts? Also, have you seen a lot of multiples with clomid? And moreover, have you seen success with clomid?

Hanseer, I am actually TTC #3. I had a saline u/s (sort of like an HSG) before conceiving #2 so I honestly don't know when my tube blockage happened. I had an HSG about 4 months ago and it showed both tubes blocked but they were able to open one side. Still TTC. My hormone levels are not great at the moment and I just turned 39 so I have a few things stacked against me. I did clomid for 2 cycles and honestly, for me, it messed things up. Last cycle seemed like everything was sort of back to normal. If you are over 35, femera is probably better. Thankfully this forum has a ton of support here!!

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I did clomid for 2 cycles and honestly, for me, it messed things up.

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This is another thing I'm afraid of. So it sounds like you were able to conceive #2 with one blocked tube? How long did it take you?

Also, why is femara better if you're over 35?

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This is another thing I'm afraid of. So it sounds like you were able to conceive #2 with one blocked tube? How long did it take you?

Also, why is femara better if you're over 35?

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No my tubes were both clear when I conceived #2. I just found out that I have a blocked tube. As far as Femera, I just think it has less side effects. I don't know a whole lot about it so maybe someone else will chime in. I also know a lot of ladies who have conceived with only one tube.

dj, just a thought, maybe the tube that unblocked reclosed again? I've heard of that happening. I didn't know you ever had both tubes blocked.

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dj, just a thought, maybe the tube that unblocked reclosed again? I've heard of that happening. I didn't know you ever had both tubes blocked.

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I have no clue! That is why I so desperately want the HSG done. The last one showed both were blocked. It really came out of nowhere so quickly! I am calling first thing in the am to get an appt

I'm SO angry about you being denied one based on your FSH. Grrr. Drs can be SUCH dumbasses! I really hope you can get one scheduled soon.

Yes, we've had some twins on Clomid, if it is possible I would say have ultrasound monitoring and only TTC in a month you have only one follice. :)

I have seen tons of success with Clomid both for conception and pink. I think Clomid is a wonder drug.

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This is another thing I'm afraid of. So it sounds like you were able to conceive #2 with one blocked tube? How long did it take you?

Also, why is femara better if you're over 35?

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The way it works is generally better for women over 35 but really, it seems more like 38 and up, have seen several good results with the 35-37 age range

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No my tubes were both clear when I conceived #2. I just found out that I have a blocked tube. As far as Femera, I just think it has less side effects. I don't know a whole lot about it so maybe someone else will chime in. I also know a lot of ladies who have conceived with only one tube.

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It affects the estrogen differently so it doesn't affect your FSH, lining, and EWCM as negatviely as Clomid and is better for egg quality in moms 35+ (mainly 38+) and also geting pg sooner