1) if you remember, what was your CM like when you conceived your DD's?
2) in the days or months leading up to conceiving your DD, how often did you and your DH bd? (whether or not it was for conception)
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1) if you remember, what was your CM like when you conceived your DD's?
2) in the days or months leading up to conceiving your DD, how often did you and your DH bd? (whether or not it was for conception)
sorry,dont remember cm as i didnt sway or really know what to look out for but we dtd as much as we could with 2 dds,the other was a pure accident and we think dh didnt pull out in time so we reckon there was just one 'squirt' that got in!!!! crazy isnt it:hair:
another girl mom question
1) if you remember, what was your CM like when you conceived your DD's? - Very little, always have been "dry" and was always on some kind of antihistamine for allergy.
2) in the days or months leading up to conceiving your DD, how often did you and your DH bd? (whether or not it was for conception) Every day LOL!
I had a little EWCM with both girls, and we added a little preseed due to being on Clomid.
With DD1 we BD O-1, O and O+1. With DD2 we BD everyday from O-5 to O+1 with a break on O-1.
I have been using fertility friend for years so can go back and check all my old cycles etc.
After AF, we BD everyday until probably the day before O looking back.
I don't remember cm with DD1 and 2. With DD3 had lot's of ewcm .DD4 was a msu also had ewcm.
DD1 we dtd 2 night no clue how close to O. DD2 we dtd 2 times in 1 night , no clue about O again.
DD3 we dtd only 1 time , don't know how close to O but I think maybe 1-2-3 days before??? because I had lot's of ewcm.
DD4 was a msu I think 1 day before O or O day.
hmmm after I read this looks like no matter what I do or on what day I still only get girls.
... but we know that timing probably doesn't matter flava - there are other things you can/are doing which may help far more than that aspect!Quote:
Originally Posted by Flava
Yes, I think this thread is a golden example that you can conceive a girl with any timing.
Yes but only girls .At least for me. And I did so much for #4 not just timing and still girl. Im just so worried about this whole thing...but when I try to talk about it ppl are telling me to relax or take a brake or maybe not to ttc and so on. Im just so scared why is that hard to understand? sorry...Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
Aww, {hugs} flava, I don't know the answers but I don't blame you for worrying.Quote:
Originally Posted by Flava
I had LOADS of thick, creamy, lotiony cm. We dtd when I got a +opk for DD2. Can't remember for DD1 as I wasn't tracking or anything. DH had just gotten a SA back with 25 million sperm just before conceiving DD1.
I know with DD1 I had lots of EWCM. We only dtd once, 4 days before O (we were trying to prevent, but I O'ed early). DD2 I really only remember watery CM, no EW at all. She was conceived very close to O (possible O+12, but who knows) after dtd only once.
Well, my point is not that you can conceive girls with any timing, but that regardless of timing people are STILL conceiving girls...AND boys.Quote:
Originally Posted by Flava
I totally understand that you're scared! It's a HUGE leap of faith to TTC under any circumstances, esp. when swaying is involved.