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Hello,
I went to see a doctor yesterday.
Supposedly 7+0 weeks pregnant but according to sonographer I was only 5+3.
There was no heartbeat visible.
As I tested with opks and also hav O cramps I know when I ouvulated.
Got a very very extremely faint BFP at 14dpo and it took until 17dpo for the lines to get slightly darker. Still pretty weak compared to my previous prEgnancies where I got Darker lines at 13dpo.
Im so sad.... Don't know what to do
I would try not to panic yet and maybe go back in a couple of weeks, it is possible you ovulated a bit later. Opks are not always accurate and when you thought you were 14 dpo you might have been only 8/9 dpo.
I'm so sorry if you have lost your baby but please go back in a week or so to check. 5 weeks is too early to usually see a heartbeat. I pray your sweet baby catches up.
Thank you....
Thing is I had really sharp O-cramps, like unmistskingly strong.
O pain is NOT reliable for determining O, even very severe O pain can happen a week or more before you actually O.
I don't think it sounds good but I wouldn't abandon all hope, the bsby may yet be okay.
I don't know why docs even do ultrasounds that early? It's really too early and many many people hear this and are distraught and go back and are fine. Should be able to hear heartbeat after 13 weeks or so. Some people earlier and this is with regular Doppler not internal us that are just unnecessary. Fx for you prego stays strong and sticky.
answered in other thread, but just wanted to send (((hugs))))
But used together with OPKs and CM charting it should be a good measurement, right ?Quote:
Originally Posted by maidentomother
She wasn't listening for a heartbeat, but at 7+0 and even 5+3 there def should be a heartbeat visible on the monitorQuote:
Originally Posted by Atsaukina1
Thank you so much, I don't think I ouvulated later. Maybe I had a late implantation though and that she also measured a few days on the short side.Quote:
Originally Posted by Babygirlquest
But that's just wishful thinking and there should still be a beating heart
Thank youQuote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
I was also measuring earlier than I believed I was at my first dating scan. I think the general consensus for seeing the heartbeat on the monitor is once you are past 6 weeks, hopefully when you go back there will be a beautiful heartbeat xQuote:
Originally Posted by Zoey
Concerns Regarding Early Fetal DevelopmentQuote:
Originally Posted by Zoey
Had a friend that they told had a blighted ovum and recommended d&c. She decided to wait and had a healthy prego. If she did decide to do d&c they don't even do an us right before to check:(
Why do people get dating scans if they are pretty darn positive of dates?Quote:
Originally Posted by mammacass
In Australia, well where I am anyways, it's standard just because they want to be sure of dates for NT scan. It's always possible your dates are out, regardless of how "sure" you are, as mine were, due to later ovulation etc
No. Even if all 3 align perfectly you could much later or not at all. Only temps can pinpoint O with decent accuracy.Quote:
Originally Posted by Zoey
By days or a week not that far to matter if you didn't do such early scans. It's probably standard here as well but I dont even see mw that early lol. It's just more stress for that babes that are a lil slower or dates a lil off.
Well, I have experirncef loss before. Twice.Quote:
Originally Posted by Atsaukina1
Once at 13 weeks and once at 14 weeks.
For all of Us where a BFP dosent automatically equals childbirth some 35-38 weeks later early monitoring is essential for our well being during pregnsncy.
Want to know by now, not wait until 12 week Scan IF I carry a lost pregnancy
It happend to me dear..with my girl...I was soo scared and upset and cried a lot. It happend to my pregnancy to measure 2 weeks less or 1 week and then again 10 days and then got to it's point and then again ...until 13 weeks.
And it also happend not to hear the heartbeat at my first u/s...so I would say..PLS stay positive and just pray and pray and pray. Think this is your baby and she/he will grow up soon.
Hoping for the best! ☀️☀️☀️
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Thann you!Quote:
Originally Posted by MyByC
Were you also sure when you conceived ?
At what point was your very first US?
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Yes. I know perfectly when my ov was because I also did u/s 2 days after it.
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Thank you all for taking time sharing your stories.
I am waiting for a call back with test results and so far nothing
Sending positive vibes your way.
Thank you!
Still so confused. Got a call back, My hcg on Friday was 13 000. Which the doctor Said matched My measured gestagation.
Sho Will not do any more tests or scans.
Im so worried. The test shows I was clearly pregnsnt, but not IF it's still developing or maybe I had a missed abortion nearly 2 W ago.
Booked a private scan today with an OB gyn with a private practise.
He took one super duper quick look. He didn't even measure, he said his eye measurements said it was 6mm CRL. "No visible heart activity"
He refused to give me a dating from that because he thought it was pointless.
The nurse did my bloodwork. Will go back for another Blood test on Friday morning and have results early next week.
Another ultrasound scheduled 9 days from now for next Friday. But if my hcg levels are dropping I won't be needing that
My vibe is very negative. Don't feel positive at all and just want to know dead or alive
Zoey just want to say I am so very sorry :( what an awful limbo to be in. 9 days will feel like a lifetime if nothing happens in between. I am hoping for a miracle for you. Again I'm so sorry :( there's nothing worse than conflicting opinions/results. Everything crossed for a better outcome at your next u/s.
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Thank you! Feeling quite sad
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Originally Posted by Zoey
I'm so sorry. These days of limbo can be so awful especially when it looks to be going a certain way. Hugs.
Zoey, pls stay positive! Really!
If you are getting negative then your body is also, your mind, your heart....! I would keep a hope...pls!
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aww zoey ive everything crossed for you :fx:
Thank you for cheering me on, and for cheering for My little one !
It's so hand to try and keep a positive mind. I know that IF Im going through a loss Again... My third, I Will need to be prepared and not have schatterad dreams.
I've lost two babie at 13 and 14 weeks and they were both growing absolutely fine until then. Both scored perfectly on the 12+0 week chromosone screenings...
Yesterdays hcg level was 28 000.
Incresing, but not nearly enough.
Was 13K on Friday and is supposed to doubble every 48h.
Hugs for the wait and dealing w an asshole doctor.
Zoey, it didnt descrease ;)
Alsoooo, my hcg level when I went to make the blood analyse after my ovulation was really small and the doctor said it's absolutelly no chance to get pregnant with that amount, but hei, I did :) so maybe it will be okay. Would you pls think positive??
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I'll hope for a miracle for you yet.
Well, some weird news!
Went back this morning to have My blood Drawn Again.
The doctor hinself greeted me in the waiting area and was called in. Not to the nurse for bloodwork but to the Dr.
He Said that he had seen My results from the lab and was surprised and Said that at that number clearly indicated a healthy pregnancy.
He wanted to do a new US and so we did, and now he looked throughly. Measured the festus to 12-13mm CRL and also found a beating heart! Can you believe IT?
Was dated to 7+3 (according to My calculations I should be 8+0 so only four days behind).
No need for blood work, another US booked for next Friday.
Great news. Just FYI, HCG stops doubling after a fee weeks. It increases but isn't supposed to double.
Fantastic news! Keep staying positive!
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What did I told you?????
GREAT news!
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