Greetings Fellow Dreamers :-)

I am new to this site, but very old to "Gender Dreaming" I've been dreaming of a son since I fell pregnant with my 1st(out of 3) daughter, back in 2006...Let me introduce myself...
My name is Silvia, I am getting old (36) hehehe, and since my last pregnancy, 3 years ago, I have discovered the art of swaying (on a different website). I have also gone through some (silent) Gender Disappointment, for which I have found comfort, also on the other site. If I'm not mistaken, some of you ladies used to be members there as well and if that's the case, I would like to particularly thank a lady who's story had made a positive impact on me in every way possible. Her name on there was "baby blues" or such. I hope to reconnect with her and thank her if at all possible.

I'm here to chat and support. I know a little bit about TTC, Swaying and a lot about Gender Disappointment :/

Looking forward to getting to know you ladies
XoxoX

Good luck Hun! Take all my blue dust xxx

Welcome!

Babygirlquest< Thank you so much <3 needing all the Blue I can get xx

nuthingbutpink< Much appreciated xx

Hi and welcome..

Wishing you all the best on your blue journey.. (Im sure you have read the thread 'how we got our boys')

If you have any pink friendly tips id love to hear.. currently few days away from my second attempt ttc girl.. Ive been swaying since Feb!

Sending you ALL of my blue dust :bluecheer:

Hello squigglepink ,

Thank you very much xx

I wish I knew exactly what does the trick, but my lifestyle does appear to favor girl conception. Based on the theories of diet & pH I AM "doomed" to have all girls. I never eat breakfast, I do lots of cardio, drink loads of coffee and diet soda, very little to no meat, no green veggies what's so ever, tons of sweets, yeah... I think it just makes sense that my natural pH come to a lousy 3.6 :/

I wish there was a simple pink pill you could take and be done with.... However I'll take your Blue dust for now and trade you all my pink ;)
Best of luck for your attempt FX for a speedy Pink BFP xx

Wow that is pink! Dont know if you ever BD every other day with your girls but that is how i conceived both my boys. And i ate breakfast. Lots of tea. Meat eater at the time. And i snacked alot. I also drank wine and ate chocolate loads. No supplements for me just FA and my DH took Zink (but check dosage as per Atomic) and we DTD all unprotected and we BD opposite to what is mentioned on this forum to conceive girls (e.g no dump and jump etc).. Ah anyway, great chatting.. when is your attempt?? Its so nice to see girls on here trying for boys! When i first joined i thought omg so many of us would love girls but ive seen so many lately wanting boys its so lovely to see we are all the same in our gender dreaming...
Ps - pink dust accepted :cheer:

Absolutely, BOYS ROCK!!! I so badly want one :tissue:
I know plenty of girl mamas who would kill for a son, well not literally, but you know.... As far as timing goes, what worked for my dd3 was a 10 abstinence and only dtd once on O-day .... yep... depending on DH sperm quality dtd every other day might lower the sperm count....

btw I am 3 dpo today, had my attempt on Saturday, we did the 4 day abstinence and again just BD once... FX

Yes very nice chatting indeed!

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Absolutely, BOYS ROCK!!! I so badly want one :tissue:
I know plenty of girl mamas who would kill for a son, well not literally, but you know.... As far as timing goes, what worked for my dd3 was a 10 abstinence and only dtd once on O-day .... yep... depending on DH sperm quality dtd every other day might lower the sperm count....

btw I am 3 dpo today, had my attempt on Saturday, we did the 4 day abstinence and again just BD once... FX

Yes very nice chatting indeed!

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Not sure how much you've read here, but the Shettles method had been debunked. The rec is to have multiple attempts at O for a boy!

Also welcome! I'm currently "pre swaying " for a boy since I'm only 8 weeks postpartum. Absolutely desperate for my next kid to be a boy.

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Oh i seeeee. You swayed already?! Riteo. Good luck then my fingers are crossed for you!! :fx:

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Not sure how much you've read here, but the Shettles method had been debunked. The rec is to have multiple attempts at O for a boy!

Also welcome! I'm currently "pre swaying " for a boy since I'm only 8 weeks postpartum. Absolutely desperate for my next kid to be a boy.

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Thank you :)

no, I haven't read much on here yet. I had already attempted when I registered. But I'll check into it for the next cycle (not that I hope there is another) Congratulations on you baby girl and best of luck for you future sway xx

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Oh i seeeee. You swayed already?! Riteo. Good luck then my fingers are crossed for you!! :fx:

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Thank you :HH:

Hi FC and welcome!!

I got my 3rd boy at 37 and my 4th boy when I was 39!! You are not "old" at all LOL!! :bluecheer:

If you have any questions just ask! :)

Awww, thank you so much atomic! You're too sweet!
If I don't get a BFP this month, I'll have plenty of questions! Looks like all I thought I knew about swaying is wrong....
Again thanx for your input and warm welcome I sure do appreciate it xx

Welcome!!

I am also swaying blue after 3 girls! I have an 8.5yr old son, he is my crazy goofy (...did I say goofy?) kiddo. DH adopted hm before he was born (long story that couldn't have turned out better!). DH deployed and didn't meet him until he was 6months, but they're thicker than thieves! It would be wonderful if we could give DS a brother and have blue bundle without DH deploying :)

Anyways, GL! I hope you get a BFP this cycle!! I am actually attempting this cycle too!! & love your Avatar... it's totally how I feel!! lol!

Welcome FC.
I am a blue sway graduate GD style. And hoping to add more blue in a years time when I am 35.
Best of luck with your attempt this month.

Hello Bre :) Thank you <3 aww that's so heart warming. I love reading stories of great daddies like your DH. Your son is a lucky fella'... I totally understand your desire ... At times I am afraid that if I were lucky enough to get a son, I'd have a strong desire to give him a brother as well hehehe but 4 would be my personal max, regardless of gender :/

Wishing you the best of luck and hope your wishes come true xx

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Welcome FC.
I am a blue sway graduate GD style. And hoping to add more blue in a years time when I am 35.
Best of luck with your attempt this month.

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Thank you Pearl! Wow your success rate is quiet impressive!! Thanx for sharing it. Congratulations! Best wishes xx

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Hello Bre :) Thank you <3 aww that's so heart warming. I love reading stories of great daddies like your DH. Your son is a lucky fella'... I totally understand your desire ... At times I am afraid that if I were lucky enough to get a son, I'd have a strong desire to give him a brother as well hehehe but 4 would be my personal max, regardless of gender :/

Wishing you the best of luck and hope your wishes come true xx

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We planned and agreed on 4, so, 5 is our max regardless of gender. I am also been pre-swaying since Feb, mostly changing my diet... always eating enough calories so on and so forth. Praying everything I've been doing sway wise will really helps this time around!

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We planned and agreed on 4, so, 5 is our max regardless of gender. I am also been pre-swaying since Feb, mostly changing my diet... always eating enough calories so on and so forth. Praying everything I've been doing sway wise will really helps this time around!

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Preparing is always a great idea!!! Before my 1st attempt (last year) I have been on the diet for 6 months prior to it! I have began to research over a year out. And after finding this site, I feel like all I've learned is outdated and basically incorrect lol
I am 6 dpo today and if I don't get a BFP this month, I'll have A LOT to catch up on, looks like :p

As to you I hope your sway pays off and you DS get's a partner in crime <3
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WE do things differently based on a different set of theories and ideas than most other sites. We have an explanation for all the differences and if you ever have any questions as to why this is, please just ask.

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Originally Posted by bre_cooper11

We planned and agreed on 4, so, 5 is our max regardless of gender. I am also been pre-swaying since Feb, mostly changing my diet... always eating enough calories so on and so forth. Praying everything I've been doing sway wise will really helps this time around!

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Hi @bre_cooper! Congrats on swaying blue. You have given me hope :) I was just wondering - what do you feel worked for you? I was considering doing the BSF but there have been so many mixed reviews. I didn’t do it for my first and we have a DD.

I'm not sure if Bre still comes onto the site any more but you can find a lot of sways here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...our-boy-sway-/

I can't recommend baking soda finger - it just kills too many sperm. Up to you if you want to try it, though. LMK if you want the directions - I have them posted in our extreme gender swaying section.