October already!!!
Do we want a list of all members and where we are at?
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October already!!!
Do we want a list of all members and where we are at?
I am supposed to DTD tonight but I am terrified!! I might chicken out, and try next cycle. I feel like I didn't prepare well enough! I had wanted to DTD O-4, O-2, and O... but if we do it tonight, we will be most likely doing it O-1 or O-2 and O. I just got a fade-in on my opk, so I am guessing it will be positive either later tonight or tomorrow (I will test before we DTD). I usually get 2 days +opks. I should have done it yesterday or the day before, but I thought maybe it was too early. I am only CD11 today.
Good Luck with your decision!!
Hobber- good luck!
Anybody else stunned it's Oct already!!
This year as gone way too fast, soon the Christmas stuff will be in the stores! Thank god we've got the kids pressies already!
Good luck Hobber, it's a bit scary when it actually comes time to DTD. No matter how much we've planned it once it gets here it's nerve wracking!
Christmas stuff is out already down here Kris :O
I'm at 4dpo, time can not go by any slower, my testing time is ages away :rolleyes:
Hobber - if it's meant to be, it's enough to BD the night of the 1st +OPK and if you want to seal the deal 36 hours later, so don't worry, be happy :wink: And you will never feel prepared enough, there will always be something you could have done better, kwim? So just go for it! :bluecheer: :bluecheer: :bluecheer:
Weather here is beautiful, warm and sunny which is very unusual for late Sept/Oct, so most of the people ( including me LOL!) act like it's still summer - when the living is easy ;) Although mornings and evening are quite cold. Now you have weather report as well :rofl:
I wanted to say there is no Christmass stuff here yet, probably as soon as early December.
Hiya ladieS XXX Hope everyone iS Well, I Still got crazy keyboard lol!! Good luck With October everybody, itS officialy the blue month!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi all! Im starting my diet today! we plan to try mid November! just had my banana and pineapple juice with gelatin for breakfast. I guess i should add some eggs and tomato for protein too.... salted, of course! just wondering if any of you still have or had a coffee with non dairy creamer while swaying? my next question is... Do any of your husbands still like to drink beer and wine? mine does and I doubt he will give it up anytime soon. just wondering if i should still be trying to sway if he still plans on having drinks? i'm sure i can get him to stop the 2 weeks leading up to O
Hey girls! GL to all ttc this month!
About my sway I don't know...the thing is if I post it anybody can read it it's a public site...but maybe I don't have to post it most likely because Im spotting again , have some cramps too looks like it's a m/c .Lost # 8 for us...And now DH says not to ttc anymore no more babys. I don't know what to do...he told me to just go on the treadmill and just loose all the weight .:sad:
Can we ttc boy right after a m/c ? (in case he change his mind, but I don't think so) I would try again in Oct. now but not in Nov. But the last 5-6 days I did not keep up the diet and no sups after bfp. Oh well DH said no anyway.
Maybe it's all my fault. Should have take it easy or so...
g2g clean now !
Oh NO Flava! I thought all was well with you! :( I am so, so sorry... :( :( I hope you can get DH to change his mind if you need to! But maybe things will be okay. My friend had bleeding on and off for a few weeks with her last pregnancy, and the baby was fine.
My DH and I had a fight last night, and we ended up not DTD after all, which is terrible, because we really should have. If we go for it tonight, we will be too close to O+12 for my comfort. I got my first +opk last night at 10pm, and I wish we had done it last night, and I wish we had DTD a few days before as well. It was a really bad night, and now I feel awful, like we really screwed up by not trying. And now it's too late. :(
ZB- 4 dpo, that's it?! omg this IS taking forever!!
5- seriously Christmas out already?! Ours starts coming up on Halloween, so wrong lol
Believinginblue- Welcome!! Beef up that breakfast, eggs, bacon the works! I drank 2 cups of coffee with cream and a little honey every morning and I'm definitely having a boy! GL and fx for a quick bfp and a sticky blue bean!
Flava- Sorry about the spotting but try to stay positive hun. Spotting and cramping can be totally normal but no matter what it's NOT YOUR FAULT! FX dh has a change of heart.
Hobber- You never know according to my u/s I conceived the day after my +opk. DTD tonight and you're probably good, personally I don't think timing matters nearly as much as diet.
Thanks ttc5! and all of you for helping me! and all of you! I have 3 beautiful DD's so adding a little blue is a dream of mine :)!
Flava I hope you feel better :( I also had 2 friends that had some bleeding and all was ok
Hobber did you sway with your last baby???
and 3pink1blue...... i should totally be following ur lead!!! you must be thrilled! and very deserving. i remember reading about you on IG When i was preg with dd3. did you restrict calcium or no? did you drink BS drink?
thank you all
I don't really have spotting I have bleeding so I think it's over...? Told DH it's not fair for him to say no more ttc because I got all fat did this diet for months spend all this money on sups ect. And now what?
But if he say yes would that be a good boy sway this month?? I don't even have all the sups I have to order some and we did not take it all for like a week...and what are the chances for a boy after a m/c? aaaaaaaaaaaa making me crazy!
hobber-Im sorry! I feel the same when we could not dtd on O day! But you should do it today for sure! I would not worry about O+12 I don't really think there is such thing anyway...and you would be only a day after first + opk so it's a good time to do it.GL!
Oh welcome sorry I did not see this post! Don't use none dairy creamer if you drink coffee use whole milk . I think ELP's DH was drinking some and looks like she will have a boy so not so bad...just try to make him drink less maybe.
Thanks for nice words all...I put on FF CD1 anyway and well see if this stop or not...but Im thinking no...I don't even feel pregnant .
I wouldn't have worried about missing last night if we had done it a day or two ago, but since we have nothing stored up in the crypts, I don't know...I get 2 days of +opks. Today is day 2...I would have done it this am, but DH was still mad when he woke up! He is such a jerk sometimes. He said we should try tonight, but seriously, I am pretty sure this is when I got my last DD (wasn't charting, but still), so I am not willing to risk it, which makes me really bummed. I guess we will wait.
I get 2 days of +opks. Today is day 2...I would have done it this am, but DH was still mad when he woke up! He is such a jerk sometimes. He said we should try tonight, but seriously, I am pretty sure this is when I got my last DD (wasn't charting, but still), so I am not willing to risk it, which makes me really bummed. I guess we will wait.
Did anyone see the thread I posted about moon signs? I'd love everyone's input.
No, I haven't swayed for any of my kids, and this is my last baby, so I am totally stressing about making sure it goes well. Last night was a disaster, and i am really upset about it. :(
I have been drinking non-dairy creamer in my Tea. I thought it was okay? Is it bad?
hi all 8dpo....i want to pee on something soooo bad.
Hang in there Tink! I bet you can get a test to use in a couple days. I think I have gotten a positive test around 9 or 10 DPO.
BIB aka believing in blue :) - I did not restrict my calcium at all in fact I went for full fat dairy, check out atomics High Everything diet. When I swayed last year (which ended in m/c) I did the bsd but it didn't change my pH a bit and in fact once I quit I had excruciating heartburn for months so I refused to do it again. The only thing I drank was green tea. Here's my sway http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...3392#post83392, by IG standards it sucked but I felt good about it from the day I got my bfp.
Hobber- I'm all for not doing what got you your girls, a lot of my sway was based on being opposite. Off to check out your moon sign thread :)
FWIW I drank full calorie full fat French Vanilla non dairy creamer each morning. Whole milk or cream would be best but I seriously didn't/don't think that a couple tbsp of creamer is going to ruin your sway.
i really want too...but i.didnt get positive with dd till i was 20 days late and she was a twin. im going to assume the same will happen. but i willsti ll pee on something in a few days
Oh can't wait for you to pee!!
ASF - have the worst hey fever and can't take any antihistamines :'(
Oh that so sucks :(
I'm so sorry, Flava. :( You can bleed during a pg, so I would get it checked out to be sure. TTC right after a mc sways pink.
Flava huni I'm so sorry to hear that :broken:
But like Foxy said, bleeding in early pregnancy can happen. Remember aabroo? She was sure she was miscarrying, but it turned out everything was OK and she is due with a boy. I hope that's the case with you too :luck:
In case it is a m/c ( and I pray it's not) give your DH 2-3 months, don't mention babies and TTC and he'll eventually come around. You know what men are like :rolleyes:
Tink - So close to testing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Any symptoms?
Flava - Go get a blood test hun put your mind at ease xx
Flava....fingers crossed for you that all is well...I feel for you after just going through this myself...hope all is well!
quick question....I know they say the first cycle after miscarriage sways girl so if I miscarried this past week and then have a period in October sometime am I safe to try again after that period?? never sure how many periods I should have before trying again...thanks
Hi Princess, I am not sure on that one sorry. Hope your doing ok xx
Hi every1, i havent been in here for a while so goodluck 2 all.
Its finally come 2 my month that ive been waiting for & i think im ovulating 2day but i shouldnt be ovulating until the 6th which is when my husband gets back from a business trip, bummer, just my luck :mad:
DD 1 :ballerina:
DD 2 :giggle: