Couple with 13 sons ''won't stop trying for kids'' until they have a daughter
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She should definitely login to gender dreaming!
All the comments are shocking! People are so judgmental. [emoji849]
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So jealous! 😣😣😣
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She needs Atomic! How interesting that would be to see if with this sites helps she got her DD after so long
wouldnt it just!Quote:
Originally Posted by GirlieCat
TP you may go on and have 13 boys now you never know!! on a serious note though if you were like this lady and had a large all boy family do you think you would ever desire a girl? if only to experience both sides of the coin as it were.. im only asking because the vast majority of people seem to want to have a mix of genders, so when people say they 100% only want/wanted girls or 100% only want/wanted boys it interests me, not that there is anything wrong with desiring a family of all one gender at all! and i hope my asking isnt offensive or upsetting, i absolutely dont intend it that way.Quote:
Originally Posted by Throwaway_panther
the comments are awful arent they, people have said horrible things to me about having 5 and wanting more so im not surprised to see the responses :( it seems any more than 2 kids these days is seen as stupid and selfish by many.Quote:
Originally Posted by bigbump
I've thought about it! We had always talked about wanting both, but I secretly wanted all boys. But even then you're not super far off -- I just always felt like I'd have less pressure to have a girl if I had a boy first than vice versa, and I still feel an almost obsessive drive for a boy even though I love my daughter, so I do wonder if that drive would have transferred over if I did get my desired boy first, or if I hadn't had the trauma or issues making me want only boys in the first place.Quote:
Originally Posted by 4blue2pink
But I'd beso happy if I went on to have 13 boys! Well, maybe not thirteen... 😉
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haha yeah maybe aim for a boy run but on a smaller scale! gotta say i admire any woman who can go through it all 13+ times though, thats one tough mama!Quote:
Originally Posted by Throwaway_panther
yes thats the interesting thing isnt it, weather that drive would cross over and be projected onto the other gender if you had had your "dream gender" right off the bat, i had that same drive but for a girl and did wonder if id had 4 daughters instead would i have obsessively longed for a son.. and i think i probably would have but for very different reasons, i think the loss of our 1st daughter played a huge role in my desire to have another girl which only got fuelled more with each boy.
Never read the comments on any type of article on this subject. People are such buttholes. :/Quote:
Originally Posted by bigbump
A lot of the folks who are willing to go to this level of babymaking are also doing it somewhat out of religion and thus don't want to mess with God's will, which is of course their prerogative. :)
I really really wanted a boy with my first and I was thrilled to get him. Had no preference with #2 either and it was a very sweet moment when I looked down and saw he was a boy!! But yes I did eventually start wanting a girl just as bad as I had wanted a boy.Quote:
Originally Posted by 4blue2pink
i would be very surprised if the desire for the opposite gender didnt creep in eventually, i think its natural to want to experience both.Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
gotta admit i would love to go through a pregnancy with no preference like you did with your #2 :)
I know, I really feel for the ladies who have a strong desire from their very first kiddo and don't get what they wanted. :heart:
Boy or girl, he should let her name the rest of them!