Due March/April/May 2017 (3)

Hey ladies don't be shy, join the group if your due in March April and May 2017.

Pinkinthestars - 22nd February - swayed girl - having a girl ❤

Cinss - 1st March - didn't sway - hoping for a boy - having a girl ❤

Lindz - 1st March - swayed girl - having a boy 💙

Kellbell827 - 10th March - swayed girl - having a girl ❤

Purple - 11th March - swayed girl - having a girl ❤

Jensy - 15th March - swayed girl - having a boy 💙

Alr7991 - 17th March - swayed girl - having a girl ❤

Nessa84 - 18th March - swayed girl - having a boy 💙

Jenren - 23rd March - didn't sway - hoping for a girl - having a boy 💙

Annalucy - 28th March - swayed girl - having a surprise 💚

3'sacharm - 30th March - swayed girl - having a girl ❤

Baby2016baby - 1st April - swayed boy - having a girl ❤

Dreams4violet - 2nd April - didn't sway - hoping for a girl - having a boy 💙

Julz - 6th April - swayed girl - having a boy 💙

Rubyroo83 - 7th April - ivf - having a girl ❤

Burakoam - 8th April - swayed boy - having a girl ❤

Brandles - 8th April - didn't sway - hoping for a girl - having a girl ❤

Magical22 - 20th April - didn't sway - hoping for a girl - having a boy 💙

Jdd1017 - end April - swayed girl - having a boy 💙

Pink2016 - 10th May - swayed girl - having a girl ❤

Girlieplease - 13th May - swayed girl - having a boy 💙

Lissastick - 15th May - swayed girl - having a boy 💙

All*blue*everything - 30th May - didn't sway - hoping for a girl - having a boy 💙

Good luck for tomorrow Girlieplease [emoji179]


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Good luck Girlieplease! At least with an early scan you can try not to get "nubsessed" as it is too early to make nub guesses. That was my plan with my scan except I ended up measuring ahead :)

Good luck today, Girlie!!!! Post some pics when you can!!! :)

Thanks everyone scan went well, am so in love. Trying mot to nub obsess because it is far to early but just impossible to stop oneself! They dated me as 11 weeks 1 day so 14 th of may does not fit with my dates but hey ho, will try to add a photo, am having a babbbbbyyyyy! X

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Baby scans rarely show accurate ovulation dates anyhow girlie so even if it doesn't fit your dates doesn't mean your dates were wrong:)baby looks great. Congrats on healthy baby! You are probably right about 10+5 that just means baby is measuring big and healthy and that's always good :)

Thanks bukoram, they are rescanning me next Wednesday because I was earlier than they like to date me, I will be 12 weeks and 3 days, good time frame for a nub shot if I can see it do you think? X

12+3 can still be early but wont hurt to get a look at nub :)

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How adorable, looks mighty comfortable in there

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So cute Girlie!!!

Is ramzi theory accurate ? I've un intentionally realised that my baby looks boy and my sister in law who's due the same time looks girl. I said from day one if i get a 5th boy and they get a girl ( one of each) it would be really hard for me. We will be the only ones on hubby side ( out of 6) to not get a girl. And I will see her baby girl the same age as mine and every time it will just remind me that I will never get a daughter 🙁

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Allblue no its not 100%

I'm sure Ramzi's theory was debunked. I personally don't take any notice of it, nub theory is significantly more accurate in my opinion and experience (4 out of 4 right). When's your 12 week scan allblue?x

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I'm sure Ramzi's theory was debunked. I personally don't take any notice of it, nub theory is significantly more accurate in my opinion and experience (4 out of 4 right). When's your 12 week scan allblue?x

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Thanks I did the hair and ring test and it said 4 boys and then a girl and it scarily accurate for everyone I know who's done it. So im putting fait in something that can inky be described as witchcraft lol
Scan is the 22nd nov. I actually want to wait til baby is born to find out gender but I know that's going to be hard with knowing nub amd skull theories..plus I've seen a lot of willies lol so will have to avoid looking between the legs x

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I woke up this morning at 4 am and cried for hours, I think in part it was relief that everything was OK with the baby bit part also was dawning of reality that there is a wee person an individual growing inside me and that rather than loving them unconditionally I want them to be something that may or may not be what they are and have tried to create what I want. I really don't want to upset anyone and I don't think this is how you all feel, just my experience, I think I feel an awful lot of shame about that. I made a connection today between that and someone behaviour my reluctance to tell people about the baby, in part it is due to my mums negative reaction but also it's like when I tell them, they will know that I was not happy with my lot that I tried for a girl and pity me if it does not work out. I know they won't think that but it's more I fear seeing my own negative thoughts reflected in them and avoidance of the same. I so so so wish I did not feel like this, I know ultimately I will love this child irrespective of its gender as I do my other children. When I looked at my gorgeous, innocent son last night, so full of love and wonderfulness, I felt so awful for feeling disappointed when I found out he was not a girl! Sorry for the rant and I really was not intending to upset anyone, apologies if I did! X

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I woke up this morning at 4 am and cried for hours, I think in part it was relief that everything was OK with the baby bit part also was dawning of reality that there is a wee person an individual growing inside me and that rather than loving them unconditionally I want them to be something that may or may not be what they are and have tried to create what I want. I really don't want to upset anyone and I don't think this is how you all feel, just my experience, I think I feel an awful lot of shame about that. I made a connection today between that and someone behaviour my reluctance to tell people about the baby, in part it is due to my mums negative reaction but also it's like when I tell them, they will know that I was not happy with my lot that I tried for a girl and pity me if it does not work out. I know they won't think that but it's more I fear seeing my own negative thoughts reflected in them and avoidance of the same. I so so so wish I did not feel like this, I know ultimately I will love this child irrespective of its gender as I do my other children. When I looked at my gorgeous, innocent son last night, so full of love and wonderfulness, I felt so awful for feeling disappointed when I found out he was not a girl! Sorry for the rant and I really was not intending to upset anyone, apologies if I did! X

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I think that makes perfect sense and is probably how a lot of us are feeling..I've said from day one I won't feel less love or dissapointment to this baby but more a loss over what I will never have...x

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Girlie you obviously love all your children, and all of them know that they're loved, including the little person you are now carrying. It sounds to me like your heart is opening to your baby, regardless of his or her gender...this is a good thing. :happy:

It's natural to want a daughter, but at the same time, maybe you are healing from the pain of GD by realising that mother love runs deeper than anything. You ARE accepting your child unconditionally - that's where this feeling is coming from. You have nothing at all to be ashamed of. Remember, this unique, precious little one wouldn't be here if everything hadn't been just as it was. Congratulations mama!! :hug2:

Girlie I think your feelings are totally natural :)

I am progressively getting ridiculously large. This is my bump today at 19 weeks

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I am getting so nervous for my prenatal appointment on Monday. Not just because I'm getting the blood test that will tell me the sex, but, because they are going to see if they can find the baby's heartbeat with the doppler and I'm just SO scared that they won't and that I've had a silent miscarriage. I feel like my fear of having a miscarriage is much greater than the fear of disappointment if the baby is a boy. I feel like hearing that it's a boy won't devastate me as much as hearing that the baby doesn't have a heartbeat and that they are dead.

I think if the baby is ok and I find out it's a boy, I'm going to be like, "ah, bummer". But, the thought of delivering a healthy, living child would give me so much happiness. Even if he was another stinky little boy. Haha.

I just have so much fear and worry that something has gone wrong. I never realized how hard, negative and depressing a pregnancy after a loss could be :(

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Girlie this was very much my feelings. But now I'm so so so much better I'm so excited to meet my little man so excited to have him in my arms. If I do have negative thoughts they are only brief and more of a worry of what other people think not my own feelings anymore. I'm at the protective mum stage don't say anything negative about my boy or look out!! The people around me though have been really good and positive so that has helped.


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Oh Lissa... i know honey. I had such a regular pregnancy the first time despite my very young age. I was so floored when I was pregnant 18 months later and miscarried. I never saw it coming. I have gone on after that very scary experience to have 2 normal healthy babies since the miscarriage and this pregnancy technically makes 3 I guess since I am past the point of miscarriage now. perfectly healthy babies are very possible even after a loss. I am sure this baby will be just fine and wiggling for you the next time you see it on an ultrasound and their heart beat will be very strong at your appointment <3

They have done studies btw that more babies lost to miscarriage are actually boys. Little boys start off so much more fragile.. and that loss also put you in pink friendly territory as you were also just coming off the diet. You stand a good chance for a girl IMO but even if it's a healthy happy boy I promise once he is here the whole experience of loss is a lot less scary. even years later I still think about the baby I lost. But I don't tear up or cry anymore and I am ultimately at peace with it

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I am getting so nervous for my prenatal appointment on Monday. Not just because I'm getting the blood test that will tell me the sex, but, because they are going to see if they can find the baby's heartbeat with the doppler and I'm just SO scared that they won't and that I've had a silent miscarriage. I feel like my fear of having a miscarriage is much greater than the fear of disappointment if the baby is a boy. I feel like hearing that it's a boy won't devastate me as much as hearing that the baby doesn't have a heartbeat and that they are dead.

I think if the baby is ok and I find out it's a boy, I'm going to be like, "ah, bummer". But, the thought of delivering a healthy, living child would give me so much happiness. Even if he was another stinky little boy. Haha.

I just have so much fear and worry that something has gone wrong. I never realized how hard, negative and depressing a pregnancy after a loss could be :(

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Totally natural feelings I has 2 miscarriages, 1 was a d&c and the nerves you feel when you fall again are awful. But here I am 15 weeks pregnant, I'm sure you will be fine also. [emoji1360]


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Cute bump Jenren. You look like you were tiny to start with so bubs has nowhere else to go but out :)

Lissa, I know how you feel. I was so nervous before the 12 week scan after having my 2 miscarriages in a row, especially after the last one where we did see a heartbeat earlier. I didn't even allow myself to think that I would be getting a baby at the end let alone think about gender until after that 12 week scan. Just remember sometimes early on it is hard to find the HB with the doppler so try not to stress if they can't. An ultrasound is usually better for checking HB when it is early.

Well 1 hour until my morph scan! I just want to confirm the gender so I can start telling people :)

Have fun at your morph scan purple!


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Purple did everything go good with your scan?

Everything looks good.. she said she would tell me if there was anything major wrong.

I told her I knew the gender and wanted to confirm so she said don't tell her. Anyway she confirmed girl!! :)

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Everything looks good.. she said she would tell me if there was anything major wrong.

I told her I knew the gender and wanted to confirm so she said don't tell her. Anyway she confirmed girl!! :)

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I also have an anterior placenta this time. I'm pretty sure the boys both had posterior placentas. It seems like they are more common with girls but it could just be an old wives tale.

who in this DD club DOESNT have an anterior placenta? something about these summer conceived babies? lol It does seem to be REALLY common with girls which is just crazy to me...my first two didnt have anterior and they were still girls but my last 2 did and it seems lots of people getting confirmed girls also have anterior placenta...i swear i read somewhere on here that anterior is more common in boys so this is just crazy lol

Lol well this is my second anterior placenta and I only have boys ;)
It is actually very irritating to me. I'm so frustrating that I barley get to feel him. It is the best part of pregnancy for me

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who in this DD club DOESNT have an anterior placenta? something about these summer conceived babies? lol It does seem to be REALLY common with girls which is just crazy to me...my first two didnt have anterior and they were still girls but my last 2 did and it seems lots of people getting confirmed girls also have anterior placenta...i swear i read somewhere on here that anterior is more common in boys so this is just crazy lol

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I think out of my 4 boys ive only had 1 anterior placenta...not far enough to know with this one yet...x

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Just popping in... I had posterior placentas with DS and DD1, but anterior with DD2&3. I've also heard it's more common with girls. & I agree, anterior placentas are super annoying!

I don't really believe the old wives tale that gender has anything to do with placenta placement, I think it's just coincidence. I had an anterior placenta with my DS1. This time I have a posterior placenta. It's crazy how much more I feel, and how much earlier it all started. Last time I didn't feel any movement till 21 weeks, this time it was around 14 weeks. Now I realize all that I missed out on the first time around. I'm hoping all the extra movement will make it easier to bond with him.


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I thought having an anterior placenta may have been due to sleeping on tummy, my favourite position to sleep, I miss that so much

I still get movements but looking at my notes for DS2 I told my midwife he was very active at this stage. I can't remember exactly what that meant but I would describe this one as just active.

I am starting to see some movements on the outside of my belly now. DH hasn't felt her move yet but it is just a matter of being there at the right time. I think he is looking forward to it as it helps him feel more connected to the pregnancy.

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