Are you in this forum?
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-boy-resources/
There is also one that has a similar name that is for the Custom Swayers only so you'd not be able to see the stuff in there (although it is all very much the same stuff as in the DM section)
I am working on getting more good stuff posted for my blue Dream Members so you should be able to see stuff in the DM forums, I jsut suspect you may be in the Custom forum instead. Sorry it is confusing at first to navigate, I know. :)