Diagnosed with Adenomyosis.
Sorry I ment to post under general but posted here instead.
Has anyone had this disease? I had never heard of it. Its like endometriosis but it attacks the muscle of your uterus. My doctor said if I want another kid I need to do it asap. He recommended a hysterectomy. There isn't much information on people my age 28, with this and getting pregnant. I know it makes it more likely to have a second or third trimester loss and that scares the crap out of me!
I'm feeling so discouraged. I have been saving up money to do ivf for a girl but its so expensive. I will have enough money when I sell my extra car but it isn't selling as quick as I hoped. I have two awesome boys from failed sways.
Idk what to do! I probably won't be able to get ivf until May than it sounds like I will need 3 months of lupron to make it more likely I can conceive before my FET.
Im torn between holding out for ivf and just trying naturally. I feel like we have a 80% of another boy because dh family hasnt had a girl in 65 years. The longer I wait the more the disease spreads and the less likely I can carry a pregnancy to term. From what I understand.
If you guys were in my shoes what would you do? Im worried if we try naturally and its a boy I will forever regret not doing ivf and maybe even resent him a little. I know that sounds so horrible but I hope you guys understand. I feel like I have a time clock ticking down my fertility and I need to decide asap. Its stressing mdme out. No one understands what I'm going through so I don't have anyone to talk to.