Embarrassing, tmi question regarding J&D!

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November 6th, 2017, 03:25 PM
Girlswaylondon

Embarrassing, tmi question regarding J&D!

Sorry for this embarrassing question but it's playing on my mind and I know this is the only place I can ask without being judged lol!!

Before we started swaying or ttc, for example when I was on BC, whenever we would dtd and I'd get up to use the toilet (j&d?) I would literally see and feel it coming out of me (sorry, I told you tmi!!)

But ever since swAying, after our attempt when I get up too j&d, NOTHING I mean nothing comes out at all! I'm so confused by this, even after sitting on the toilet for a few minutes nothing is being dumped lol!

Could this be to do with me usually having a lot of cm but the diet has now changed this? I worry it's compromising my sway because I can't actually j&d?!
November 7th, 2017, 03:57 PM
atomic sagebrush

hubby taking anything or doing anything different?
November 7th, 2017, 04:34 PM
Girlswaylondon

Nothing at all, also noted (with outside release) the amount is completely normal!
November 8th, 2017, 01:26 PM
Star32

Hi, I hope you don't mind me jumping in to ask how often/ many days are you doing FR and when are you BD in your fertile window?

We are trying FR and I'm worried we will run into the same issue!
November 8th, 2017, 01:53 PM
Girlswaylondon

Not doing anything regarding FR or abstain!
November 8th, 2017, 02:40 PM
Star32

Sorry, I misunderstood
November 8th, 2017, 04:56 PM
Girlswaylondon

Would you recommend I be doing either of those atomic? Hubby is 27 and fit and healthy?
November 13th, 2017, 12:22 PM
atomic sagebrush

Neither abstain nor FR has really been super effective and both cut odds of conception by a lot. The thing that works is the one attempt. It's up to you if you want to add them in.

If the amount coming out seems normal I'd try not to overthink things like this.
November 13th, 2017, 02:56 PM
Girlswaylondon

You're right I probably am overthinking! I'm just so used to having to dart to the bathroom to avoid "spillage" that when it came to my actual attempt and j&d I was like huh?!
November 13th, 2017, 03:17 PM
Prettyplease

Here's a TMI question... Did you orgasm or no? If you had an orgasm, you will have more CM.
November 13th, 2017, 03:27 PM
Girlswaylondon

One of the times I did and the other I didn't, and both time nothing! it's very bizzare!
November 13th, 2017, 03:56 PM
Prettyplease

Well... I'm excited to see how it goes either way! I'm hoping that it's the diet and you get your girl!
November 13th, 2017, 04:00 PM
Girlswaylondon

Thank you, pretty! :)
November 15th, 2017, 02:33 PM
atomic sagebrush

Quote:

Originally Posted by Girlswaylondon

You're right I probably am overthinking! I'm just so used to having to dart to the bathroom to avoid "spillage" that when it came to my actual attempt and j&d I was like huh?!

Well, let's just take it as a good sign then. :)