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Sorry this is gross. I’m gojng to do this and have read the article on it but am unsure whether to just wipe up after ten minutes or try to have a wee after ten minutes. The last option sounds more harsh in terms of evacuating. I’m just not sure what the pros and cons of these different types of j&d are
Sorry just realised this is the wrong forum - don’t know if it can be moved?
I got up to use the toilet within 5 mins and sorry for the tmi but I got rid of as much as I could and I still got pregnant. I suppose you have got to do what you feel most comfortable with. Are you in a rush to get pregnant?
It’s impossible to talk about it without giving tmi :happy: Not in a big rush but sooner rather than later is the goal.
Ha ha yes it is isn't it lol. Maybe try it first month, go to the toilet after 5 mins then if you don't get pregnant either just wipe up or extend the time. I'm sure atomic will advise you better than I can. Do you get pregnant quite easily normally?
I was meant to j&d but when the time came was so scared id flush everything that ended up layin for 20+ Min 😬
Did you get pregnant from that? Or don't you know yet?
In my tww - made my attempt last tue...
Good luck :fx:Quote:
Originally Posted by Parying4agirl
Yes good luck!
Both times it’s happened pretty quickly but I’m always surprised as I have really irregular and long cycles. I think when it has happened it’s because I’m tracking like mad. Normally we don’t use anything and I’ve never conceived that way, never even worried about it
I moved it into the right spot. :)
After 10 minutes it's really pretty much irrelevant so do whichever option you prefer. I do not consider J and D after 10 minutes to ~really~ be J and D in the truest sense - you'd need to J and D immediately or after 5 minutes for me to really think "oh yeah that's a J and D". It's still more a J and D than after 15-30 min or longer, but not what I think of when I think of J and D, is all.
I actually recommend urinating after sex for most people most of the time anyway since it helps prevents UTI. I would wee if I needed to wee, and not if I didn't, LOL.
Beyond that it's not worth worrying about.
I jumped and dumped and peed immediately after with my girl pregnancy (still can't believe I can say that..). I had given up hope on conceiving as I even started propping my hips in an effort to get pregnant, but DON'T do that, I had just wanted to get pregnant and it didn't work anyway!
Ok I’ll do 5 mins and have a wee :-) lol it’s so gross, it makes me laugh talking about j&d
That’s what I’m going to do I think now :-) Was your attempt on o day?
Nobody attempt on O Day, it's quite low chances of conception! O-1 and O-2 are better
Yup, my attempt was 0-1 or 0-2. I wasn't tracking very well that month but according to my due date it was 0-1!Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush