Atomic please help with 2 loss
Hi Atomic, recently found out baby is a boy and tested positive for trisomy18 [emoji22] which I guess I’ve felt all along since he’s always measured 3 days behind. I’m devastated to have lost another baby in 2nd trimester. I don’t want my kids to know about this loss so just praying I can get pregnant again right after and maybe they’ll never know.
My question is how soon after d&e is it safe to conceive? 2 weeks after bleeding stops If I’m tracking ovulation? Does this sway girl and if so what steps do I take now? Start LE and what vitamins do I continue to take or stop? I won’t have the d&e until next Friday.
I do have one more dose of 50mg clomid but I’m scared thinking that the clomid or lack of nutrients or maybe the alcohol, Or something I did caused these 2 possible chromosomal losses as I’ve had 3 healthy kids prior. I did find one article online saying that clomid could cause birth defects but I have no idea if it is legit? Fertility dr said my eggs are good so what is going on? Please help on what to do next.
I want a girl so badly but more importantly I want a healthy baby. I just can’t go through this again [emoji20]
Thank you
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Atomic please help with 2 loss
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atomic sagebrush
It's a good book, just that there are some supplements that have risks and side effects that are overlooked by the author. [emoji4] Just run em by me, that's whta I'm here for.
Thank you. I’m just taking prenatals, folate, vitamin D and probiotics and stool softeners when needed and cut back to 1 cup of coffee. My husband is taking a multi vitamin and coQ10 which was recommended in the book. Does that sound fine? Should I be taking coQ10 too? I also read in the book that melatonin helps egg quality when going through ivf, should I take that? I thought about having DH add in the OLE after I start the ivf cycle but I know you’ve said you don’t really believe that helps.
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