Happy New Year all!!!!!
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Happy New Year all!!!!!
So update on me after our recent findings on my "infertility".
We are not swaying anymore. I'm not temping or opk'ing either. After being hit in the face with the news it has made us realise how gender is not important to us anymore.. I am under stress now so don't need to have added stress on top (which swaying was doing). We will BD when we want, how we want and pray to God for a miracle.
I don't want to face the specialist that did this to me :( I don't want to go anywhere near him ever again. I'm going to write to the hospital a letter of complaint and ask my GP what I can do next as I don't want this to happen to someone else.. just because I already have 4 children surely he would have told us of this risk because people DO go on to have more children and we have every right to aswell!!! Enough now, I am building up far too much anger every time I think about it :(
Great attitude TTC5, ill bet YOU are the one who totally stops stressing about swaying and everything that goes with it, and falls preggers with their DG!
I"m so behind TTC5, what is going on?
Happy New Year Everyone! It's been a long time. Are Lola and begonia still posting?
As for me, things are OK. DD2 diagnosed w/ high functioning autism, PDD NOS. Found out today I have gestational diabetes and will get more info this week about diet changes. U/S to check placenta moved is on the 9th but no bleeding which is a great sign. Other than that, holidays have been nice and kids are othewise healthy and happy.
Sorry I've been gone but miss everyone and can't wait to catch up!
Hi iluvmyman, welcome back, it's good to hear you are doing well. Yep Lola and Begonia are still around :) I have just TTC for the first time since DD was born and am currently in the 2ww.
Found out last week that the operation from last year has left me most likely infertile :(Quote:
Originally Posted by iluvmyman
FX! When are you testing?!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinss
I hope you get the best therapy and aide for DD. I work with children with austism so feel free to pm me if you want to chat with someone with experience xxQuote:
Originally Posted by iluvmyman
Happy New Year everyone! Hopefully 2012 sees us in with lots of BFPs!
iluv, it's good to have you back :)
5, I had a look at those links, thanks. I am so sorry :( I really can't believe how negligent that doctor was. I know you don't want to see or have anything to do with the doctor but I really think you have a strong case. Can the coiling be reversed at all?
Yahmama, sorry to hear about the miscarriage. I don't think swaying has any influence on miscarrying. If you think about it, there are lots and lots of women who have normal progesterone that miscarry. So being on progesterone supps doesn't guarantee a sticky baby.
3, looking great! Not long to go now. I totally agree about being highly tuned during the 2ww and putting everything down to pregnancy symptoms.
hope.ful, congrats on your bfp! Very happy for you.
Kris, I tend to agree with your partner about the name meanings. But that's just me. My girls meanings are 'morning dew' and 'little lamb'.
MFC, thanks for the good luck :)
Hello to everyone else!
So I O'd early this morning. We DTD last night and the night before. Tomorrow will be 1dpo. I'm feeling pretty relaxed this time so hopefully the feeling lasts!
Good to see you back iluv, sorry about your DD but it's good now she's been diagnosed so you can get the right help for her. Not good about the GD, I hear the diet is very boring! But you gotta do what you gotta do so you'll manage. I got my test on Tuesday to see if I have it or not.Quote:
Originally Posted by iluvmyman
I started a new January thread too yesterday... guess this one is more popular! :suprise:
Happy New Year y'all!
TTC5, I am so sorry about what has happened with your procedure. I think writing a letter would be appropriate. Have you thought to contact a lawyer? Is there any way the procedure can be reversed? I hope that you get that miracle pregnancy in 2012. :)
Bec, FX for a sticky blue bean!
Iluv, how old is DD2? I have a friend whose son is autistic, and he has been getting all kinds of help since he was 3, and he has made HUGE strides! The earlier the intervention, the better. There are so many programs designed to help these days, it is amazing!
Hi girls!
was not easy to find this place lol. I see Z got a BFP??? wow big congrats !!!
TTC5 what happened? Im sorry hope you get a blue bfp soon anyway!
FAB I miss you too but I just can't hang here or even read much...still don't like to see baby boys...:-( this no more baby ever is not easy...but what can i do? On the other side i really looking forward to be more "free" with big kids lol
skrimpy-you lost 29lbs wow girl you MUST tell me how ! Im trying here but so hard and it's not going good .I eat so little now and still...send me a pm or here , anything lol tnx
Big hugs to all!
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I just wanted to say hi to Flava - it's so lovely to see you! I hope you feel better about no more babies in time x
I am not sure if it can be, the dr did not say anything? I will ask though.. do you think it could be?
Oops sorry H, I didn't see it xxxQuote:
Originally Posted by Hobbermittens
So I caved and checked with CD I am and I am CD 13. I am trying so hard to believe that I at least have a 1% chance better than O%. We have been bd'ing all over NYE and timing it out my window now, I don't care!! Just want a baby :(
A friend of ours fell pregnant recently after her husband was told was infertile too so it does happen, hey? Oh I am holding on to strings now :(
Sorry feeling very emotional right now.
I am writing a letter but finding it hard to word it. (to the hospital).
I will be testing tomorrow morning at 10DPO, i have been a good girl and no POAS yet :)Quote:
Originally Posted by TTC5
I have my FX for you C!!!!!!!!!!! Good girl for holding out!!!! :D
I think the letter is a good idea, they should tell you the risks no matter how many children you have.Quote:
Originally Posted by TTC5
Good job, FX for you!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinss
I have no idea where to start it. They will probably shrug me off no doubt, I mean I already have 4 children :(Quote:
Originally Posted by love being a mummy
Happy New Year Folks, haven't been on here on ages, hope you are all fine and well. :)
Back in here this month as I've had a chemical pregnancy this past cycle...but it was odd as my bleeding didn't start or a whole week after my BFP on the FRER. This explains why my "Internet cheapo" tests never gave me a BFP...they prob weren't defective, just showing my levels never reached 25 :( Hoping for a diff result this month...
You have a right to have as many children as you want--it isn't up to a hospital to decide if you have "enough" already! If your fertility was taken by a doctor without your consent or knowledge, that is criminal! I can't imagine they would blow you off over something like this.Quote:
Originally Posted by TTC5
:( I'm so sorry yahmama.Quote:
Originally Posted by Yahmama
How exciting!!! GL!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinss
Thank you!! So Sorry to hear about the possible infertility. I sure hope that isn't the case. Will be praying for you.Quote:
Originally Posted by TTC5
That's exactly how I feel about her diagnosis. We at least have a jumping off point now. GL on your test. I'm not very good with discipline or consistency which will make the diet hard but it's just 3 months, right. I've looking into it a little. I know it's iike 6 small meals. just makes this all even scarier I guess but there are worse things. GL on the name picking. We are stil working on a middle name and now DH is reconsidering the 1st name. I just want a name. I told him I've been calling her Carrigan and he better come up w/ something new a =nd quick. I think he"ll stick w/ Carrigan though. I like it..Quote:
Originally Posted by Kris217
She'll be 7 1/2 this month. We have had her in speech since pre-school and she is already doing OT for fine and gross motor skills. We homeschool so not too many school adjustments needed except me figuring out what works best for her and learning more skills. We have learned to work with her throughout the years and it's not a shock. Just nice to finally have an answer and new tools to keep her on track and minimize everyone's frustration. We will be meeting with a case worker soon to try and make some things easier.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hobbermittens
Don't you dare start feeling that way. The # of kids you have has nothing to do with it. You write that letter with conviction girl! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by TTC5
Any ideas on how to word it? xx
Sorry to hear that :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Yahmama
Carrigan is nice, I hope he just settles with that! Yeah only 3 months left so the whole diet thing will be over with before you know it!Quote:
Originally Posted by iluvmyman
So what if you already have 4? Maybe you could talk to a lawyer first to see where you can go with it?Quote:
Originally Posted by TTC5
I can't afford a lawyer :(
Flava, good to hear from you!
Cinss, good luck testing tomorrow :)
5, did you find any info on reversal? And it doesn't matter if you have none or 20 children, it is your right to choose how many children you want, no one elses. I agree with Hobber, they will have to follow it up and if they don't then you just go higher up.
Yahmama, my last cycle was a chemical too so we're in the same situation. They say you are extra fertile the month following so fingers crossed for both of us. I know it's meant to sway girl as well but I actually don't really care anymore.
I will definately write a letter. Just unsure of how to word it all, right now..
I would just go with the facts... You've been TTC for a while now. Recently in conversation with your doctor it was brought to your attention that the coiling/embolisation may have made you infertile. You were never told that the procedure carried that risk and would have delayed having it done until you had finished having children. I don't even think you need to mention in your letter that you have 4 children already, it is totally irrelevant.
I agree with Bec, well said.