Preg after CP

Hello!

I purchased the package to help me sway for a girl last year. We started in September of 2018. It took me until end of January to concieve, but unfortunately I had a chemical pregnancy. I was also under immense stress and struggled to eat the recommended minimum of calories.

After our loss in February we took a break. After starting q new job that I love, we decided to try again last month. I was extremely ill with a bad respiratory cold.
I was barely eating anything and getting by on a convention of q drink that is very boy friendly. Hot water, lemon, honey, acv, salt and cinnamon :(:( since I was very sick I assumed my chances would be slim so we BD'd more than once on the fertile window:(:(

I have 2 boys 3.5 and 5.5. So is there slim chance that it could be a girl? I should have been paying attention.

Thank you

I want to add that I was crazy obsessed with doing the opks etc, so last month we didn't use them. I'm thankful if this is another boy of course, just praying it is a girl, but the swaying to me says otherwise ♡ thank you!

Anyone? :HH:

I'm sorry for your loss. A drink alone isn't going to sway. You still have a chance at a girl and unfortunately we can't tell you what you're having. Even great sways produce opposites and even those who don't sway can get their desired gender.

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There is ALWAYS a chance of a girl even with a total blue sway! I can't say if you're going to have a boy or a girl so I'll just wish you good luck and send all the pink dust I have!

Thank you guys!!
Atomic, I didn't know that!
Thanks for the heads up!
Super excited to be pregnant, as it hasn't been easy! Praying for a rainbow baby girl!
:ttcgirl::HH::DD::biggirl2:

Atomic, is it true that more than one attempt sways blue and being sick possibly pink? I know I'm being crazy lol but just trying to remember and like an anxious person weighing in on everything I was doing at the time.
I'm just a bit sad that I assumed the chances of getting preg while sick were slim, since we were trying last time for 4 months and I feel like I sabotaged my sway after so long doing my best to sway pink. Do you know what I mean?
I read that 1 attempt is the #1 sway tactic

We DTD July 27, 30, Aug 2 and 5.
O14 was Aug 1. But unsure when I ovulated as I didn't test with opk strips this time.
Sometimes I O on CD12 and other times 14 or 16. Assuming I that cycle could have been delayed due to illness.

yes, we have reason to believe that one attempt sways pink and also being sick may too.

No, one attempt is not the number one sway tactic. It's just the best sway tactic to use at the last minute for people who don't have time to do diet and exercise.

The thing is that given your BD schedule you had two attempts at most. Sperm live a short time so there's no way that sperm from July 27 was alive on Aug 2. There is no way sperm from July 30 could be alive Aug 5. And it may even be just one attempt depending on when you ovuated and how many sperm had survived. Two attempts is barely any worse than one so try not to worry about that for now.

Ok! This puts my mind at ease.
So there's still hope for my girl!
I'm happy either way, as this has been longer of journey than I expected. Each baby is a gift and when it's meant to be it's meant to be.
Thank you Jesus!
Praying for Pink Dust!

Thanks Atomic! :awe::cheer:

There's always hope even with 3 attempts! You always have a chance of a girl! Good luck!

Thank you so much!:cheer: