Attempt advice

Just need advice. I can only have one attempt, either tonight or tomorrow. Would like to get as close to O as possible, (If I do O)
I have never used easy at home opks so not sure how they work.
My opk at 8:30 am was very positive.
Took another at 3 and it wasnt as positive. Cd 10 today.
Took soy isoflavones cd 3-7.
When would be best time.
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This is probably still a false positive. Just like with Clomid you can get false positives for 3 days after your last dose, and you usually won't ovulate before 5 days after your last dose, but they're much less reliable. I would go ahead and attempt now (I would do it tonight to be sure you're in before ovulation, but tomorrow would likely be ok too) and then keep testing. It may be that you will O in a few days and that this is false positive.

Grrrrrr I totally fell asleep last night! I will be crushed if I ovulated yesterday. Attachment 42683 My temp shot up today, hopefully its a fluke! We had fun this morning but likely too late :(((

Grrrrrr I totally fell asleep last night! I will be crushed if I ovulated yesterday. Attachment 42683 My temp shot up today, hopefully its a fluke!

We had fun this morning but if I ovulated likely too late :((((

For all we know this may have been perfect timing. FXFXFX!

�:fingers::fingers::fingers::heart:

everything crossed for you DJ :heart: xx

Maybe it was a fluke temp.
Just so ready for my bfp.
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But maybe the low temp is a fluke! It can happen! FXFXFX

I am really feeling so bummed.
I thought maybe the soy would help.
I have been eating better, exercising and taking coq10 (not that its a magic pill)
Im just afraid of another long cycle. I know its still early but so frustrated.
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You know, a lot of people see that big dip right before ovulation.

Well I hope its soon. Opks are negative but dark

Sorry to be a BD nag LOL but are you attempting?? I would def. have you in with an attempt with that big dip right now even without pos OPK

I am definitely doing e4d....but I can.add in an attempt maybr tonight :).

FXFXFX!!

Nothing exciting to report but I'll keep you posted and hope somehow it works out this cycle

Well I had some bloodwork done this week for a check so she did hormones, FSH was 76.
Im devastated. And done , so so sad.

You took the soy though, right?? What if that shot your FSH up way high?

I did take the soy. It was a well physical on cd 15. Fsh was crazy!!!!! I had to put glasses on..lol.
LH was 28 and estrogen was 43.
Why would soy raise it so high?

For the same reason Clomid does - it blocks interaction between estrogen and the pituitary gland due to its effect on GnRH. This causes the pituitary gland to crank out a lot of FSH and LH to compensate.

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yes I absolutely think it's still possible you will ovulate!!

I hope! That number really shattered me!

Just venting! My husband is having surgery next week so this was our chance this month. Im just so over my body. My opks have looked like this the last few days so its obvious that its out of whack. Just so tired and frustrated. I feel like I need to give up but its so hard to let go.Attachment 42697

Ugh I'm so sorry - I can only imagine how frustrated you must be by this point.

FX that this was a well timed attempt. :heart:

Well it doesnt seem likely that I have ovulated but it feels like I have my usual pms headaches and feeling hot?
Could soy have messed temps up?
My last period was very very light compared to my usual so maybe it was just breakthrough bleeding?
Im pretty much throwing the towel in because I just cant do this anymore. Its obvious my body wont even ovulate.
Just wondering thoughts of its possible af is on the way? Can you ovulate with no temp rise?
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Yes, the soy could possibly have thrown your temps off or even the DHEA.

Let's try weaning off the DHEA and see if it could have been interfering with ovulation somehow. I don't think it's likely but after all, it can in higher doses trigger PCO-type symptoms (I cannot wrap my head around this happening on the dose you're on but let's dot our i's and cross our t's here)

Ok I need to wean off? Im sure its not that, but just my body being dumb...ugh. Nothing seems like it will help at this point. Its just so odd, totally feels like AF is arriving soon but absolutely no temp pattern suggests ovulation. I had bloodwork on CD 15 and progesterone was 0.5 so clearly didn't O yet. Today is cd 23

I would. I always like you guys to wean off stuff, it's just safer that way. I truly do not think it's the DHEA stopping ovulation, though, if you prefer to continue.

Why cant I ovulate!!!! Grrrrrrrr...
Maybe Im just out of eggs, feeling so hopeless.
I thought maybe I did, got a whole day of peak opks and had a temp rise, just for it to go down.
Im out this cycle, hubby has surgery. :(

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Cry. Cry. Cry

Not sure what to think. Nothing seems normal :(
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I'm not sure I trust the crosshairs but I do think things are looking up.

Yes me either, but that was our only attempt :(
Oh well, hopefully next cycle will be somewhat normal

Im thinking no Ovulation

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Hmm I'm not convinced, can you take out that one high temp early on?

I did, but the chart stays the same. Just surprised ff gave crosshairs.
Its fine, DH is in recovery from surgery so its a bust anyway. I have progesterone that I wanted to try as a last resort type of thing but won't take it with such uncertainty.

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It's just that one low temp causing confusion and that could be a fluke.

I hope Dh is on the mend soon!

Thank you, he is doing well ❤

Hey Atomic!

So it seems pretty obvious that I am just not going to fall pregnant. Im still trying to wrap my mind around that and try to be ok with it.
Im sad about it.
But I seem to deal with these pms headaches all the time. They seem to start almost a week before AF. Is there anything I can do about them? It feels more like tension pressure ones so I dont think advil will work.
Im cd 17 today and have had them for like 4 days already but havent seen any sign.of O in my temps.
Is it possible that my hormones are just so low that I won't even see a thermal shift?
I just feel like Im being forced into menopause and it sucks. I have days days of peak opk but dont see temps rise :(