New here and have a few questions
Hello everyone! I apologize in advance for the long post! I have been reading through many of the sways from this site as well as in gender for many days just trying to get an idea of what I need to do and change in my life to get my little girl. I have 4 boys already. And I can tell you that all of them were conceived either the day of or day before ovulation. All were planned and only took a month to conceive, except for our last son who took 3 months after a miscarriage which was not a planned pregnancy.Thats what I am confused about because they all coincide with shettles, but at the same point I didn't know about shettles at time of trying until recently when I started looking things up after our 4th boy 6 months ago. I have also looked at my diet and it very much goes along with the boy diet. High sodium, low calcium, and magnesium, I don't like milks cheeses or anything of that nature. I can tolerate yogurt but that is about it. Also, we don't eat any red meat. We are more vegetarian than anything. Also want to point out that I eat a bowl of cereal with almond or soy milk every morning. So anyways, onto questions I would like to know does adding calcium and magnesium really make a difference as well as cutting down the salt? Some of the things I have read are conflicting. Also, I would like to point out that I have had 3 miscarriages. So Iam very hesitant on not taking a prenatal vitamin. As these lost pregnancies were all unplanned and when I was not taking prenatals. Also a bit of my family history, on my side my sisters, brothers mother etc. all had mostly girls and none of them had 2 boys in a row even! so I wonder why Iam the odd one out. And for my husbands side, one of his sisters has 3 boys then had a girl, and they eat a high salt diet. But then went on a diet and lowered processed foods and sodium while trying to conceive and got a girl.So maybe there is something to that. ?:happy: I guess I would just like to know where to begin. ? Also, wondering about douches, is lime or vinegar better? And is replens or rephresh a better option? Thanks so much! Also just want to say Iam glad I found this site because you all know how this situation feels. And lets just put it this way my husbands family makes comments and always throws it in my face that they all have a girl and we dont. :mad: So, its nice to know that I am not the only one going through this.