hello new here introduction sway info symptom chart asking for advice or help thank you!
Was on another forum decided to give this one a try after two years on the other. Lovely ladies there but needed fresh advice help information in general. My signature says it all for the most part. I have a few children at all times I have five children summer and holidays I can have all nine therefore to many including my family at times I am seem as wrong for not only wanting one more but for dreaming of my own little girl.
I recently, last month actually, had a very early miscarriage. I was not trying to conceive but losing the baby had made me feel empty again like something was missing. All my previous pregnancies were surprises must if which were on or coming off of birth control. so this time I want to actually try to conceive and of course I would love to have the odds more in favor for a girl, or multiples, I would gladly bring home another baby boy any second of any day as I did suffer with my last severely with depression due to being a precious boy. He is now and from the moment he was born, my everything. But here I am attempting for a girl but in a good mind set for another little guy.
So far here is my sway:
I am on these vits and supps
Calcium; not taking as often as trippled intake of dairy specifically milk
Vit c- haven't been as consistent with this
Magnesium- haven't been as with this
B complex- every day so far
Folic acid- ever day do far
Cranberry- ever day so far
Thinking of starting next cycle if no bfp this cycle:
wild yam
Vit a
And saw palmetto
Diet changes
Lactose intolerant so usually no milk but drinking tons of chocolate milk last few weeks
Eating allot less food
Allot less red meat in fact didn't eat my steak on 4th July lol very rare for me. Haven't changed Much else yet was working into it lol. .
This has been busy last few weeks trying to gear up and try for girl and still learn how to do this all but think officially in tww so here's my sway so far. Any suggestions if no bfp for cycle would be greatly appreciated!
Cd 1: M/c 15th of June 2014.
Bd every other day until cd16.
Cd13: Ewcm 27th of June cramping on left side high cervix couldn't reach no confirmed ovulation though.
Cd14-cd19: Sticky cm low cervix twinned and mild cramping.
Cd19: early morning bd left in all night/morning. purple nipple not aereola and just one nipple? Later in evening both nipples purple.
Cd20: positive opk two different times no ewcm water sticky or creamy cm. Nipples less purple and areolas match. 6pmish gush of water like cm poured out?
Cd 21 or 1dpo: ovulated in middle of night? Bfn preg test bfn ovulation test. Slightly crampy today this time right side.
1dpo: extreme exhaustion the kind can't even keep eyes open and it not even 4pm. prob due to stress and ovulation? Sore bbs. also seem to be getting a cold the rest of the house is getting the flu. . Great.
2do: pinching cramp like a stitch in side but in my lower left tummy (not thinking implantation lol just weird). It is a constant pinch feeling kind of sending pain through hip down legs. Not even sure related. Very tired still. Hungry but not lol. Moody but blame me lol? Breasts off and on tender. Very creamy cm now and whitish in color instead of clear and sticky. Cervix high right now. (Not sure if ovulating now or what lol). White spot on nipple but nipples back to pink (looks like when breast feed but I'm not haven't for over year)? Very horny last few days. not sure symptom but charting it. Maybe getting sick idk but beyond exhausted and I went to bed early and slept in. Also beyond sore like exercised and ran all day (prob if sick this is symptom of that but dont feel sick other than irritated throat and Warmer feeling) all this tired and soreness. Pinch/cramp? Low left. .Forgot add headaches since last week. Maybe my ov symptoms still? hurts to get up and walk. Legs hurt like ran all day seriously sore lol. Nasty taste in mouth and dry mouth too like cotton mouth lol. ..tmi but white stains in panties:(...cm white and creamy and abundant gets flaky when dried out lol sorry tmi.. sore boobies..wondering if this my ov after ov symptoms to look forward to seeing each cycle lol?
3dpo: same symptoms not as sore our tired feeling yet. Feeling more normal than previous two days. Slight Sensitive breasts. Gassy.. but lactose intolerant and dining crap lOads of milk lol. . Weird symptom thick stretchy but clumpy white cm similar to ewcm but not ad slippery stl kind of creamy/sticky and only when dig fit cm by cervix which is medium position right now? Normal post ov probably? No color smell itch or burn just a glob of white weird cm and only at cervix. Later afternoon dinner time breasts are killing me. Starting to wonder when ovulation really was or what. . Lots of white tacky cm.. thinking a/f about to come?
4dpo: my birthday. . Dreaming of implantation speaking of dreaming holy F*** the vivid nightmares again. Cramping all morning sometimes dull other times sharp and painful while sleeping was very uncomfortable. feeling concerned for another m/c if cramping continUes. . Not to bad now with the cramping dull pains but could be early a/f which would mean super short lutheal phase. If I'm lucky enough to be experiencing implantation early then I'll know was somewhere on the right side ad that is majority of stronger cramps lol. . But were few on left and made me dream of being pregnant with 5 babies lol. sore throat out of nowhere. . More the glands though? Late night very enlArged squishy cervix :confused: bout in between low and high.
5dpo: cervix very squishy but firm when pressed on at same time? ? Very low to. .. night time got a bit higher actually. No more sore throat or glands but very runny nose and temporary cOugh. .Boobs been off and on hurting sensitive. Beyond exhausted still. Very vivid dreams still. . CramPing on and off mild though. . Back ache. Feel like sciatic nerve is being pinched in late pregnancy again? COugh gone runny nose mild runny eyes bad. . Heartburn or anxiety attack I can't tell but chest hurting bad last two nights hard to breathe only at night.
6dpo: early morNing 2am cervix is now gone. Felt very edge of it and feels squishy still? ? Going to bed now lol. ..
Not temping atm might try to next cycle.
all the bding times no big o except on the 3rd however was missionary and idk if that is in my favor as I rarely have the big o (tmi) takes me too long to reach it lol. . Didn't have the big o with my boys. .So hoping that didn't effect anything plus three days before ovulation so hoping that helps my chances too lol.
Dh on road so idk when next time dtd so kind of hoping I swayed enough plus bio says girl for yesterday/today otherwise prob be dieting till at least October when finally get to dtd lol. . Think this is an ok sway for girl? What should I change?