baby psychic reading has got me down!
I feel so ridiculous even writing this but I can't get it off my mind. I have 2 beautiful little boys and if/when we start ttc again I hope for a girl. I don't think I ever realized how much I wanted a girl until I got pregnant with my 2nd and became fanatical about finding out what the gender was… I did every test 'known to man' (OWT) and when I did find out at 21wks that I was having our 2nd boy I cried (so hard). I look back at this and feel guilty because DS2 is such a light in our lives and a big mamas boy and he was meant to be ours. I love him (and his brother) with every single fibre of my being! That being said, I still have a strong desire for a girl … I do feel that there is a different relationship with sons and daughters as your child grows and I really want that experience. That being said if the situation was reversed I would equally want a boy to share in the experience of raising a boy.
Anyways, we likely will try and have another child at some point but I'm 37 (and dh 39)so who knows if I'll even be successful but I've always been a believer in psychic readings (although I've never felt as though as I've had a great reading where it was 'right' on) but I've paid for 2 online readings and than had a in person reading last summer and all said I would have 1 more child - the lady who I went to in person said I would have a girl and another online one said girl and then today I got one back from one that was recommended and she said boy. My heart sunk! I knew it was to good to be true … lol! I can't help but be sad! I'm not even holding on to any hope that a dream could be realized… I feel like this is the story of my life. Don't get me wrong I'm so lucky to have the beyond wonderful boys I have but completely separately I still want a girl. I know I need to get past this and like everything else I know I will but because I can't talk to anyone about this in real life without feeling judged (or very few people) I just felt like I needed to get it out there and off my chest.
I should add I know most people (especially non believers)are going to think I'm crazy to put any stock in this but even though I'm trying not to think about it I can't help it.
Thanks for reading!