Announcing gender after GD???
Hi ladies.
I am 21 weeks preg with my first child. Dealing with GD after learning I am carrying a boy. I have known the gender for about 1.5 months and we just announced our pregnancy in Xmas cards arriving today. . We did not specify the gender on the announcement. So people WILL ask this week.
My question is I am still hesitant to announce gender, immediate family knows , so I figure it WILL leak, so I can't lie and say we are waiting to find out. I am nervous about my reaction " faking" excitement for the gender when people ask, and i am also nervous I will over share and say "I am really nervous as I really wanted a girl" (since we know people aren't very understanding)
My therapist thinks it might be therapeutic to keep telling people the sex, " fake it till you make it"
It remains a big deal because it is such a secret, and I feel like it creates more drama avoiding it rather than being non chalant
The truth is aim. Not excited about blue and trucks and primary colors so I might say for gifts we are hoping for gender neutrals for use with our someday 2nd.... (thinking HT for#2h)...
Anyone have advice for reveling gender when you yourself are dealing with disappointment?
Thanks!