Did you keep it to yourself or tell?
I am wondering if those ladies who have been unfortunate and had a miscarriage, if you kept it to yourself (and husband/partner etc) or did you tell your family/close friend/s?
I haven't been able to answer the phone from my best friend as I am not sure if I can tell her or not... I am seeing my mum today for the first time in a couple of months, but I am not sure if I want to tell her either?
Did it make things feel better or worse for you if you told people? I don't want to hear all the usual crap that people say - like 'oh well, better now than later' or 'why on earth are you trying for a 5th baby'!
But I feel very alone, my husband won't really talk about it with me, he just gets uncomfortable or something and changes the topic.
I am currently waiting for a follow up ultrasound tomorrow, after being told at my 8wk scan that the growth was that of a 6wk and also that the heartbeat was very, very slow at 46bpm. I was told that it was not a viable pregnancy, so I am guessing that the scan tomorrow is just to confirm that the heart has stopped.
Ugh, this really sucks, I was so happy with waiting for a March baby and now it's all undone.....
Sorry to go on, hopefully someone will have some words of wisdom for me :broken: