Need advice - attempt this month or skip?
I am stuck as to what to do - due to DH injuring his back, long working hours and preparing for a holiday away DH has not felt up to DTD at all in the last three weeks :sigh: I am likely to get a positive opk the night before we go away this weekend and might be able to convince DH to bd before we go away but my chances of bd before then are nearly zero so it would be a 4 week abstain by the time we have our attempt. Given DH is 40 should we even try this month or just forget about it? Is it too risky? I am not sure what to do as definitely want to give DS a sibling asap and feel like we are running out of time but DH is not being overly helpful in this department at the moment. Any advice would be greatly appreciated (including ideas on how to increase dh's libido :wink:)
If by some stroke of luck we do manage to bd before our attempt on Friday or Saturday (depending on opk) when would be the safest time to do this without swaying blue?