Miscarriage....where do I go from here?
I went to my OB appointment today and found out that the baby has passed. I should be exactly 14 weeks today but it measured 13+1. I'm so upset and looking for advice. I swayed (girl) so hard for this baby. I lost over 20 pounds, took Clomid (just for swaying), diet for 14 weeks, exercise every single day for 14 weeks, and did 1 attempt. When the doctor said she was gonna do a quick ultrasound because she couldn't find the heartbeat with the doppler I was excited, I thought I would for sure be able to see the gender at this stage. It didn't even come across my mind that something was wrong. I'm devastated. They want me to do a D&C on Wednesday, Valentine's Day. What a terrible thing to associate with a day that celebrates love. Has anyone had a D&C before and can tell me what to expect? When did your cycle return? How long after did you wait to try again? Has anyone else lost a baby around 13 weeks? Did you ever find out why? All I can think of is being pregnant and having a baby. Where do I go from here?
Atomic- I've been eating whatever whenever during the last 13 weeks, I also completely stopped the exercise as soon as I saw the BFP. What do you recommend going forward? Another 3 months of exercise and diet? Also I got pregnant on the 3rd month of Clomid 50mg. I'm not sure how many months we're allowed to take it. Should I do Clomid again?
Miscarriage....where do I go from here?
I’m so sorry for your loss [emoji22] I recently had a miscarriage in November and delivered her at 17 weeks, my swayed and prayed for daughter after 3 boys. I got pregnant with her on my 3rd round of clomid 50 mgs. I started trying again my first cycle back (Dec) I’m about to start my 3 round of clomid and praying I get pregnant this cycle. I’m doing a lighter sway, clomid, eating healthier (much more veggies/fruit) but still no meat. Also, switched to folate and taking around 2800 mg, and no exercise.
Also, we never found out why her heart stopped beating. NIPT came back good with no abnormalities. Hope this helps.
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