Please help- gender disappointment- don't know what to do :(
I'm not really sure where to turn, what to do, who to talk to.
I found out yesterday that i am expecting my 3rd boy. I was so happy to fall pregnant, loved this bump and baby growing inside me (or i thought i did!) all until yesterdays scan.
PLEASE dont knock me down for saying this because I know it's 'wrong' but i can't help my feelings.
As soon as the sonographer said it's a boy and i saw it's bits i felt instant dislike towards it and wanted it out of me. I have no feelings for it- im just numb and scared i do not want anther boy. Im 17 weeks and have no idea what to do.
I can already feel myself spiralling into a depression again.
My husband has been rather frank and told me im evil and a horrible person for not wanting it because of it's gender. I just dont think i can raise ANOTHER boy. Im not strong enough to, ive spent the whole of today in bed crying.
I feel so so alone as i can't talk to anyone about it and i feel huge guilt for being lucky enough to conceive but hate whats in me.
What do i do? Please help :(