3 boys and considering ttc a girl ❤️
Hi Ladies.
I am new here on gender dreaming and have been reading a lot of threads here, but I am a little confused.
I have 3 wonderful boys. I planned my two first pregnancies, but the last one was a surprise. I am very fertile and get pregnant easy. I could have had 5 boys.
I never really tried swaying and hoping everytime I was pregnant, that it would be a girl. Everytime I felt like I lost the girl I never had. I love my boys, but I am longing for a girl so much. I just talked my HD into trying for a girl.
This will be my last child and I hoping that I will get my girl to complete my family. I am afraid that I will have a boy again, since I could have had 5 boys.
I have been very stressed for over a year and lost 12 pounds, because I haven't eaten very much. Sometimes only one meal a day. Mostly I eat cake and a yoghurt in the afternoon and dinner at night. I eat a lot of milk chocolate and drink a lot of coffee. Not healthy at all I know. I did maybe gain a little weight the last couple of month as I tried to eat more.
I planning on ttc for a girl in December. Is it too early or is it OK since a kind of did low everything for a year now? Does stress sway pink? Should I change my diet? I eat meat for dinner, should I do the vegetarian diet? I don't work out at all, but I am very busy at work and home. Should I do cardio? I really don't have that much time for it though.
With my boys I didn't eat breakfast, but I did eat 2 or 3 meals and sometimes snacking chocolate. I did drink 2-4 cups coffee everyday. I didn't do any exercise. I didn't take any vitamins. I did have some ocd with my boys, but I am more relaxed with it now, because I don't have the energy.
I always been normal weight. I am 5,5 feet tall and I am 120-122 pounds right now. That was my weight with boy 1 and 2. I actually lost 10 pounds a 5 month before conceiving boy number 2 and didn't eat much either back then. I probably did have a bit more muscles than most thin girls when I conceived my boys. Now I really don't have a lot. When I conceived my boys we bd once around or on O. We didn't bd for a week or so before O. My cycle is around 26 days.
I am 37 and my husband is 40 years. Our youngest son is 2 and a half years.
Do you ladies think I have higher odds if I try swaying for a girl? Or do you think i will get a boy again?
Should I take any pills? Vitex, aspirin, cranberry? Licorice root for hubby? I think he have high sperm count or did. I think we will try frequent release with one attempt. Should that be with protection or pull out before attempt? What will you recommend me to do? I am so confused after reading here.
I considering buying the custom plan. Is the chances a little higher if you get a personal plan?
Sorry for all the questions.
I hope you ladies can help and guide me ❤️