Hello -
April this year I had my third son after a failed gender sway - I was so upset when I found out I wasn’t having a girl at my 20 week scan because my husband and I both had always said 3 children was our number - so I knew any chance of having a daughter was gone!
I am totally in love with all 3 of my boys and adore them immensely but every day I think about having a daughter.
I’m now trying to persuade my husband to have one more baby.
However i don’t know if if would be a good idea to have another baby for a number of reasons:
- I have never wanted 4 children and I am just wanting the chance to have a daughter
- worried about how I would cope with 4 (I already seem so busy with 3)
- how a 4th would affect my boys - sharing my time even more
- practical end of car & house
However the thought of having another baby won’t go away - I’m scared if I don’t have another baby I will regret it for the rest of my life.
Thank you in advance