Age gaps between children?
We are doing our second Frozen embryo transfer either this Sept 2019 or next Sept 2020. We have a daughter that turns 1 this year in September, and older children from my husband's previous marriage (my step children) aged 5, 8, 13.
What does everyone think about the perfect age gap for children? Would you rather a almost 2 year gap or almost 3 year age gap.
My specific situation is that this is probably our last baby.
Pros:
-Doing ivf this year is that my little one will have a playmate. The older step children are in school.
-Our age. We are over 35 now. I feel like it's best to go through another pregnancy earlier.
-I like the idea of using the embryos as soon as possible. Less frozen time.
Cons :
-it's my last baby and I want to enjoy every minute of baby stage and if I rush that I might not enjoy it as much.
-I am not sure if I emotionally ready to go through another stressful pregnancy again. My last was very complicated.
What are your thoughts?
Do you have babies just under 2 years apart?
Do you have babies under 3 years apart?
If you could choose the perfect age gap, what would that be?
Pros and cons?
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