Originally Posted by
ksmom
I'm so sorry you didn't hear girl. It's perfectly normal to feel this way, especially when your hopes are so high. I felt the same way when I found out we were having DS3. It took me a long time to get over it. I wasn't so much sad that he was a boy, but sad that I wasn't having the daughter I thought I was having. He turned out to be the sweetest, cutest, chubbiest baby ever and I'm so glad we have him. He turns 4(!) in less than two months. It goes by so fast.
I'm sure your daughter will still love having a baby brother and develop a good relationship with him. My boys only have girl cousins and they're always having a blast playing together. I think there's also something special about having only one daughter. It's that special bond between just the two of you. :awe:
It just takes time to get through the GD process. It's grieving the loss of something you thought you had. It's okay to feel sad or disappointed. As EnglishDame said, I'd go out and buy a few new clothes or items for the baby as it does help. Hugs!