Planning IVF/PGD journey next year after gender disappointment
Just found out that we’re having our second boy :(. The baby is healthy but I have major gender disappointment.
The only way I feel like I can move on is planning for a next one for IVF/PGD. My husband and I both talked about it and he seems very interested.
I had some questions -
- I am currently due in October 2021. How soon after birth can I start trying for ivf/PGD?
- Is it a guarantee that we will have a girl? Does it work better if I am perfectly healthy and fertile?
- where in the United States is the best place to go to? I’ve heard The Fertility Labs in LA is great. Any other recos?
- when should we start planning the whole process? Is it too soon to even be thinking about this? This is the only thing that offers me some consolation.
We’re ok spending the money and I’d like the age gap to be as less as possible.
I really thought I was done having kids but I desperately want a girl !! Any advice on this will be greatly helpful.