Desperate for a take home baby :-(
I’ve made other posts but wanted to make one more specific to my loss
I’m breastfeeding two babies currently
16 months and 2.5 years
When baby was 10 months I got pregnant with baby 6 after a couple of cycles since my period had returned
My cycles initially were wonky likely due to getting my period back
I was 39 3/4 at the time so I’m hoping that’s evidence at least that I can still get pregnant at this age.
We only saw a flicker of a low heartbeat and I miscarries naturally (mistake - took forever)
I had no pain at all at any point for that I’m thankful
I passed the sac 12/28 and bled until 1/21 (felt like an eternity)
I had hcg linger longer then normal and my first af took until Feb 21st to start (preceded by 3 days of lite spotting)
I did have a pos opk prior to that af and I had negatives before it so it wasn’t hcg
However I did pass large tissue in the first af so looking back maybe I wasn’t really even able to conceive anyway?
Same happened with My March af - passed a large 2”x1” glob of tissue at the end of af
I’m trying to work out how many cycles I’ve been trying
I’m hoping it’s not as long as it is on paper due to the longer cycles and passing of tissue
So I had af these dates and pos opks
12/28 passed the sac
1/13 hcg still 396
*Passing lots of miscarriage tissue still*
1/17 no more tissue / blood from here
1/19 negative opk (hcg gone)
2/6 first pos opk after zero hcg confirmed (cd41 from passing the sac)
2/21 af (11 dpo spotting 12dpo full flow) passed miscarriage tissue?
3/6 cd14 pos opk
3/21 af (12dpo spotting 13dpo full flow) passed miscarriage tissue?
4/6 cd17 pos opk
4/21 af (13dpo spotting 14dpo full flow)
5/8 cd18 pos opk
5/23 af (13dpo spotting 14dpo full flow)
6/7 cd16 pos opk
Am I in trouble here? Is this normal after a loss for it to take longer?
Do I toss the first few cycles?
I turned 40 this past March.
Im a complete mess emotionally and desperately want to get pregnant
And advice? Can someone over 40 have a loss and still go on to have a take home baby?
Thank you