Having a second boy - horrible disappointment 😔
I’m due my second son in November.. I thought I was ok with it but as the date gets closer, I am realising that I’m really not :(
Everything about this pregnancy has been and felt completely different, so much so that I was fairly confident it was a girl and we’d be completing our family with one of each.
I was secretly thrilled and didn’t really want to consider it was a boy
I went to our private gender scan on my own (because of covid) and I asked for a secret but accidentally saw it was a boy and my heart just sunk.
I’ve lost all enthusiasm for having our baby now, it all seems really pointless. This sounds horrible and disgusting, but it’s true. I can now only see all the hassle it’s going to be
I adore my eldest boy after struggling with PND and awful GD with him too, we’re very similar and I couldn’t love him more. I just don’t want another boy! I’m telling everyone around me that I do and I’m excited but it’s a lie.
DH is prepared to try for a third child with a bit of a gap so I can work in between for a while despite us agreeing at 2. He is very very pleased to have 2 boys and I’m finding it hard not to resent him for it.
I have PCOS, DH is one of 3 boys (his 2 brother both have 2 girls each) and his dad only has a brother. I can’t help but feel doomed to only have boys and never get the girl I ache so much for.
I cry alone about it a lot and fly into a panic when anyone close to me tells me they’re pregnant because I don’t think I could handle watching my friends with a girl i so desperately want
Every piece of me feels like a girl mum, I feel wholly myself around girls and worry I’ll never feel complete without one. I want to love my new baby boy and feel I’m only going to be able to if I can believe there is a chance of a girl in my future :(
Feeling really low tonight!