First Trimester Ultrasound coming up, advice needed!
I have my first trimester ultrasound coming up. Unfortunately, it’s scheduled for 12 weeks and 4 days pregnant. I have studied nub theory in and out for my last three pregnancies and have gotten pretty good at reading a nub. Obviously I know that nub theory is just a theory and is not 100% but it can be pretty accurate! Here’s the thing, I’m not sure if I want to find out the gender of baby #4 (our last baby, did a decent blue sway) or if I want to wait until birth. I’m afraid that I may blow it for myself at the ultrasound by looking. I don’t think I’ll be able to not look for a nub, not sure how crazy I’ll seem by trying to not look at the screen at all. I’m considering finding out at the 20 week ultrasound to give me time to celebrate or cope but I’m nervous that finding out at 12-13 weeks may leave me devastated and dreading the rest of the pregnancy if it’s not our bundle of blue. Please help! Any thoughts, advice and opinions or personal experiences are appreciated!