Dream of a last child in the future. OR: To sway or not to sway
Hey there,
my second son is 1 months old, as i find out at birth, i love this tiny little man. And it starts feeling OK that i miss the daughter i don t get.
One thing i couldn t change in my head is the idea of having one more child, don t know when. My husband never wanted 4 children, which we now have - so i don t ask him know about one more in a couple of years. But my 35th Birthday is next week, so i don t know what to do for the future to maintain more fertility.
I don t know if its realistic to have another little one by the age of 40 f.e. I personally would only sway one more time - as i already have 2 opposites now, one by LE and one by LE for PCOS, i really think it is luck or bad luck at the end.
As i had my daughters i never did anything, so maybe swaying at its own sways blue for me, or my husband is a factor which i can t change - he is quite more on a healthy lifestyle when we got the boys (by the way, we only BDed once a months for both of the boys). So maybe now we are super fertile ;)
Maybe there is another Mama out there who is thinking about waiting a few years to sway (or not sway) again ? Or has it done this way already? I m really interested in storys of having another child after a few opposites and how this changed your mind about swaying maybe.
IMO swaying could lead to more GD than living our life as we wanted as we truly were and then getting a baby which is the preferred gender or not. But then we had not spent too many energy of influencing anything about it. So it is more seen to be OK as a kind of fate.
So if you have or had such thoughts or experiences please let me know :)