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[Tiffani3]

Hi all you lovely lady's
Random question to you all, have you all kept your sway a secret from friends and family??
I have been trying really hard not to tell anyone what I'm doing, but told one of my friends today and the look of horror on her face was a picture, then explained the hole thing! Which she totally understood and actually unknowing had swayed in a way her self (she has dd and ds)
Just interested in what experiences you'd had and if it was positive or neg feed back?

[ynwa]

I have not told anyone at all,I want to avoid all those comments,most people I know have a mix so don't understand!infact I have told people I won't be having anymore babies.some of my friends are smug with having 1 of each and tell me how happy they are,so I say the same,I am happy with my 2 Boys.

[Tiffani3]

Totally agree so many of mine the same. Lesson learnt I think! Will carry on with my couldn't ask for more than 3 beautiful boys!

[Tiffani3]

+ just on a massive diet and excerise plan wanna bikini bod for summer lol sway sway away!!!

[suregena]

My mom knows, but that's it (besides my husband.)

[NCBeachyGrl]

Everyone thinks I have dropped meat for the summer LOL! I feel like if I tell ppl, it will jinx me in some way and I don't want to deal with having to explain all the theories, etc. I don't want to seem desperate too...like if it is another boy it will just make ppl feel sorry for me.

[fresas]

I am not telling people because they seriously won't get it or I will be judged with not being grateful for taking what God gave me. I may be able to tell a couple of friends later on, but I haven't really told anyone in real life. They think my hippie herbs and my crazy diet are for PCOS. They're partly right, but there's more to the herbs and diet besides controlling my weight and mustache.

[BeadinMom]

Two of my best friends know...one swayed herself and the other I'm really close to and I pretty much needed someone to laugh about all of this stuff with. My DH knows and I've told my mom. But for me, the biggest thing is overcoming my age and getting pregnant at all. I'm 40 now. Other than those people, nobody even knows I'm trying to get pregnant. I don't want to hear the comments. And if it's a boy, I REALLY don't want to hear it.
It's MY life...and as long as my DH and I are ready and willing to expand our family, I don't think I owe anyone an explanation.

[CherryBlossom]

Noooooooooo.
Oh my oh knows of course!
Too many judgmental people. Too many people saying its a waste of time and money. Thinking I'm not grateful. And gosh if it's the opposite sex the whole ' I told you so ' ' last laughs on you'.
I'm sure people know I'd like a girl. But I'm not even going to say anything on the gender thing.
Once I am pregnant I'm actually dreading telling people I'm pregnant!

[Tiffani3]

Yeah will defiantly not be telling anyone else!!
Plus am also dreading people finding out when I get pg. The pity looks and comments, drove me nuts when I was pg with ds 3, one lady said to me the other day in the supermarket '3 boys did you not want a girl!!!!!' replied with no couldnt ask for anything more!!! went home and cried my eyes out and though god she knows something I don't! Lol
(maybe she was a massive swayer!) or just likes to stab people in the hearts whist shopping! So rude!