Bfp and not over the moon!

[Tiffani3]

Got my bfp yesterday was in such shock yesterday and this morning before I even got out of bed I cried my eyes out :..(
I didn't sway for very long so feel so disappointed in my self.
I know I should be so happy right now and have actually done more this month than if I was to have ttc without coming across all this info, was ttc for two months prior with very long cut offs with no diet etc..!

But still so disappointed in my self you wouldn't believe

[NCBeachyGrl]

Awww....don't beat yourself up about it at all! Sometimes all this swaying and stressing can raise testosterone so you are probably better off than any of us!!! Fingers crossed you have your little dream bean in there!

[Hobbermittens]

WHat were you swaying for? Can you post your sway? You probably did better than you thought! Congrats on your BFP.

[Mrs_P]

i know that feeling well..... not that i'm quite there yet - not got a bfp but am having all symptoms of being pg and feeling quite annoyed with myself. I also only just found site and wasn't trying this month we did dtd way before o (turns out it was like 6-7 days which should really still be too long)

Prob doesn't bode too well for me if i am because not only have i not been swaying yet but I have worst life style ever.... Really rough time at home - poorly kids with one thing or another, working part time and had lots of stress with my job potentially changing, up til all hours with uni work (i do open uni) for my exams and on top of that was not sleeping as ds3 keeps waking me up at 2 every morning so tired and very stressed. On top of all of that pretty much been addicted to chocolate digestives and diet coke (for the sugar to keep me awake) really bad diet and over weight. Also did not do fr or abstrain and dtd 6 to 7 days before suspected o (boy zone) amazed if i've gotten pg at all and prob 0 chance of my dd if i have and i had a really good sway planned to

at least if you've been doing the diet thats the major part of a sway and if you believe in that sort of thing your in a girl month

[Tiffani3]

Thank you girls xxxx

WHat were you swaying for? Can you post your sway? You probably did better than you thought! Congrats on your BFP.

We are swaying for a girl fx
I will post my sway see what you think xx

[Tiffani3]

Mrs p good luck I hope it works out for you xxx

[Mum23boys]

Will u put your sway here or in the sway setion ? Im sure u did brilliantly. FX for you

[coocoobananas]

I was a bit sad when I got my bfp too! And I felt bad because everyone on here was dying to get one. I mean, when I got a bfn I was dissapointed so wth?? I think
The swaying changes ttc because for you there is a lot on the line. You'll always wonder if one thing could change the outcome! I loosened a lot at the end and I do feel ok with that. But maybe that is the only reason I got pregnant because of that and maybe that swayed blue? But if I did everything perfectly that in itself could have swayed blue... We just will never know and you really have as good a chance as the next girl to get a girl!
I think just trust your decisions, they'll be right in the end

[Tiffani3]

Will u put your sway here or in the sway setion ? Im sure u did brilliantly. FX for you

Just put it in the add your girl sway section! Thank you not sure that I did you can all access for me! Xxx

[Tiffani3]

I was a bit sad when I got my bfp too! And I felt bad because everyone on here was dying to get one. I mean, when I got a bfn I was dissapointed so wth?? I think
The swaying changes ttc because for you there is a lot on the line. You'll always wonder if one thing could change the outcome! I loosened a lot at the end and I do feel ok with that. But maybe that is the only reason I got pregnant because of that and maybe that swayed blue? But if I did everything perfectly that in itself could have swayed blue... We just will never know and you really have as good a chance as the next girl to get a girl!
I think just trust your decisions, they'll be right in the end

Are you having a boy? I do believe in destiny and that little person is waiting for us!
Really wanted to get the best odds and I suppose it made me make that choice to ttc this month and not wait! So what will be will be! (I wish and hope fx&tx)
On the plus side I'm down to 106lbs now so may not have even o'd next month and made myself really ill in the process!
Thank you for support xxxx