Hi all
just joined
just went through first ivf with pgd and we had 2 healthy girls transfered 9 days ago, and found out today its a BFN
i'm heartbroken and in major grief and feeling like a failure
I have two beauitful boys and conception wasn't an issue so I have a hard time understanding why this doesn't work.
Centre says its onto FET next - what is the process for this? right away or do i have to wait out 2 AF's?
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Thread: BFN, on to FET
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October 29th, 2012, 05:08 PM #1
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BFN, on to FET
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October 30th, 2012, 03:06 PM #2
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I am so sorry for your BFN. I too just had one in September and it rocked my world as well. Are you lucky to still have a frozen embryo to transfer? If so I think that is fantastic....many girls get the BFP from a FET. I hope so.
As for your feelings I totally understand. Time does help but right now I keep thinking we would be Telling people right now and I might be showing and truly torturing myself. I have started a new series to read to keep my mind off it. I have a plan to try again and sounds like you do too so hang on to that as hope.
I am always here if you need to vent and will be cheering you on your next cycle.
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November 3rd, 2012, 02:20 PM #3
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I'm so sorry that is my worst nightmare. I'm starting the Menopur today and am SO nervous. Does anyone know, is FET more successful. I have an HRC dr and we are doing Fresh the first cycle, transfer planned on Nov 19th? I feel clueless about this High Tech stuff. My doc and nurse don't explain things very well, or maybe I just don't understand it all.
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