TTC Girl - HELP! Shall we DTD tonight?

[Pink10]

I have been TTC girl for months now and always relied on timing amongst other sway factors specifically cut off but havent concieved. I came over to GD from IG and have been trying to absorb as much new info as possible over the last few days.

I'm taking Vitex & Peppermint Tea, DH is taking LRoot, we have both been on the LE diet (not v strict though) and I am limiting caffine. I have been taking Benedryl for 8 days and DH took it about an hour ago.

We DTD CD8,11,12 & 13 but then hubby went away until today (CD16), although he did FR last night (CD15) - I have had a positive O test today (neg at 1pm, poss at 6pm) - shall we DTD tonight or will we be too close to O?

Anything I can do tonight to sway further - I have a summers eve vinegar douche (not douched before)....

Many thanks for any advice

[Pink10]

p.s. its a critical girl day for me tomorrow according to biorythums - I think I will O tomorrow - maybe this is a sign?? If we DTD tonight though I will be 1 day before O.................

[atomic sagebrush]

Sorry, I only just now saw this! If you are a Dream Member and need a quick response, I try to answer the Dream Members section first.

Timing doesn't sway and most of us have several timing opposites to prove it. Cutoff + pink sway tactics make it very difficult to even get pg at all.

I would have def. had you make an attempt that day. I got my DD on the day of pos. OPK (day before ovulation) and I have at least 3 cutoff boys (not sure about one of them - I have FOUR boys and I know three were cutoffs, it's the 4th I am not sure on.).

I don't believe in biorhythms at all. Douching is at your discretion - I don't advise it because we have better alternatives and I think it would prob. be overkill with the Benadryl, but I do think vinegar and water sways pink.

[Pink10]

Thank you! I will post in dream members next time. We did BD that night but can't seem to get timing out of my head but you are proof that it doesn't matter! FF chart hasn't confirmed O yet OPK was pos for 2 days. Fingers crossed!