Help Please?

[mollisol]

I'm hoping to start TTC in August or September and will be swaying boy. I have been reading through all of the information, but am a bit confused on one point. I am overweight and could stand to lose about 30 pounds.
Would it be better for me to lose the weight and then start the boy diet or to maintain where I am now and still try to sway boy? Any thoughts would be appreciated!

[atomic sagebrush]

if you are not swaying until then it is best to lose weight now and then do diet later

if you want to sway sooner more like 1-4 month then best to hold steady

[Cinss]

You can lose weight following a high protein low carb diet, and still eat fruits and veggies, drink lots of water and exercise. Do not starve yourself to lose the weight.

[mollisol]

Thank you. That was my plan, to lose the weight first, but to do it healthily. I am no good at starving myself even if I wanted to.

[mollisol]

So after talking to DH today, he is thinking more like May or June, so only 4-5 months away. I really want the best shot at doing this right, since it is our last baby and we have two girls already.
If I were to start exercising (thinking 30 day shred) to build muscle and then start the boy diet and supplements two months beforehand, would I be hurting my chances? I'm willing to do whatever it takes.

[Cinss]

So after talking to DH today, he is thinking more like May or June, so only 4-5 months away. I really want the best shot at doing this right, since it is our last baby and we have two girls already.
If I were to start exercising (thinking 30 day shred) to build muscle and then start the boy diet and supplements two months beforehand, would I be hurting my chances? I'm willing to do whatever it takes.

I think thats a good plan, i was doing the 30 day shred when we conceived DS

[atomic sagebrush]

I think that's plenty of time!!!