hoping it's a boy...Ladies?

[tm29]

https://www.dropbox.com/s/ixxm3uyxzc....jpg:pregnant:
I would be so grateful for your guesses. The sonographer thought female - but this was only at 14 weeks, so if you believe this could be a boy at 20 weeks I would LOVE to hear that. But if you think there's no way this could turn out to be a boy then I need to accept it.

Thanks ladies!

[dloui128]

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[pebmcpd7]

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Me too!!!

[Wanting-a-girl]

Me three

[tm29]

https://www.dropbox.com/s/ixxm3uyxzc...ks%20image.jpg

Please try again! Thank you so much - it's lovely to hear from you.

[shiningstar]

Hmm.. I could see that going either way. 14 weeks is really not a good time to find out gender. When is your next scan?

[tm29]

oh wow that is really amazing to hear - particularly from the mother of two boys!! I'm really hoping for a boy... My next scan is in two weeks - the scan you've seen was done a month ago. I regret doing it when it was not really going to give me certainty.

So having seen both your boys scans you wouldn't say for sure that this is a girl?

[hotdogz&boyz]

It's the nub, right? I think it's rather girly. For gestation especially. Stranger things have happened though Keep us posted if your scan proves this one wrong!

[shiningstar]

oh wow that is really amazing to hear - particularly from the mother of two boys!! I'm really hoping for a boy... My next scan is in two weeks - the scan you've seen was done a month ago. I regret doing it when it was not really going to give me certainty.

So having seen both your boys scans you wouldn't say for sure that this is a girl?

I'm not trying to get your hopes up. I am not an expert by any means and I've never had a scan at that gestation. I was looking more at the protusion and not the angle. It is flat but I don't think nubs are 100%. Good luck at your next scan! I would go in thinking it's a girl just to be safe. I have gone through GD twice now (found out #3 is another boy). Whatever the outcome, please know that everything will be ok.

I'm hoping some more experienced ladies will chime in with their opinions.

[tm29]

Thanks Shiningstar and hotdogz&boyz - you both have my dream family! I do have GD and it's hard to believe now that it will pass, but thanks for the reassurance Shiningstar. And I know I shouldn't get my hopes up - you're both right it's better to go in expecting to hear 'girl', but I can't help still hoping just a bit.
I'm SO glad I'm finding out and not attempting to face a lot of complex feelings about gender with an innocent baby in my arms. Knowing early may have cut my daydream short, but if this is confirmed as a girl, then at least I have time to accept and get myself together before she's born.

Thank you so much both of you for taking the time to reply. I know you aren't sonographers, but youre both mothers of boys which makes you very special and lucky in my mind.