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    I shouldn't be feeling like this :(

    I feel so blessed to be pregnant again after a horrible MC and D&C and then TTC for 4 months, but I just KNOW in my heart that this one is another girl and I am struggling with it. We didn't really do much to sway unfortunately because after our MC (which was a boy) we just wanted a baby, though were hoping for a boy. I am just sad now because my DH will never have a boy and it just breaks me - he is such a man's man and ALL of our friends are having or had boys this year, just seems SO UNFAIR. I KNOW they will all be making comments to him on this about another daughter and that makes me sad. I also know my MIL will make a comment and I KNOW my SIL will get lucky with a boy when they find out. UUG. Literally, just today 2 more announced together they are both expecting boys in December and it just makes me sad.

    I am almost 11 weeks along, not sure when we will be able to find out gender, but I feel like I don't need it confirmed. I am positive this is a girl, Ramzi, PH and heartbeat support that too. Pregnancy is very similar as with our DD and my best friend told me she knows it's a girl, too (she is the only one who guessed right with DD). I should just be happy, so happy that I am pregnant again with a healthy baby and that our DD will have a sibling. I feel so wrong for feeling this way. Has anyone else felt this way? UUG I hate myself for feeling this way.

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    I'm sorry you are down. You can't help having a desire for the opposite gender. I think it's a normal feeling and many of us have been there.
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    Having losses does NOT take away gender desire. They can and do exist together. Wishing to have a healthy baby of a certain gender doesn't take away the pain you felt from a loss or the happiness you have over a healthy baby this time. But your visions for your family remain, even through losses. So don't feel down on yourself or feeling that desire for a son. We all get that feeling...it's why we are here

    And furthermore...you are still sitting 50-50 for gender. Ramzis, heartbeat, symptoms, and other people's "psychic" predictions aren't even close to accurate gender predictors. I know tons of people who have same pregnancies with different genders. And tons who have 2-3 of the same and totally different pregnancies. You are still in the game for a son!
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    I'm so sorry you are feeling down Hun
    I read your sway and it sounds great and for what it's worth ramzi, and heart rate and everything else pointed to girl for me and I had a boy so don't count yourself out yet


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    Thanks ladies. Man, do I hope I am wrong. I really do, but more than anything I just want a healthy baby and sibling for my sweet DD.. In my heart, though, I really want this baby to be a boy...I just don't believe with any piece of me that it is. With DD I had no clue if she was a boy or a girl...but with this one I feel like I have known the entire time it's a girl. Here's to hoping I'm wrong!

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    Hope your feeling better, you just might be wrong but if your right and baby is another girl, trust me you're giving your dd the best gift ever.
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    Dont count yourself out yet. I was sure i was having another son this time around and so was everyone around me. When i told a coworker i wanted a girl she said yeah right its a boy.
    Well its a girl lol.

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    You ladies are all so wonderful. I found out today that I was wrong...we do have a baby BOY brewing in there! All the worry, makes me feel very silly! Thanks for all of the support!

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    Congratulations on your son

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