To BD or not to BD...

[Jamie86]

Sorry to the ladies in the Firecrackers TTC In July Thread who have already seen this, just thought maybe I could find some opinions from some who might not look there. Need some opinions on if we should BD again or not.

7/2- on Clearblue advanced with FMU then at 6pm blinking meaning "high" fertility
7/3- "high" again with FMU. Used rephresh at around 9am then DH came home from work early so our attempt was earlier than expected at 11am
7/4- "high" again with FMU and then at 6pm solid meaning "peak" fertility also IC OPK very positive.

According to the box the "norm" is 2 days of "high" fertility and two days of "peak" fertility which means tomorrow will probably be another "peak" fertility day at least with FMU probably changing if I test again at 6pm if the pattern holds true.

I know one attempt sways girl and we are usually very fertile (each of my 3 pregnancies has taken only 1 cycle) but I'm wondering if I messed up the one attempt on 7/3 because afterwards DH was asking about what all the "stuff" was he could feel (it was rephresh). And I'm thinking I will be Oing tomorrow so that means it will be 2-2.5 days from attempt.

Do you think we should stick with the one attempt or add another attempt tonight?

[Abifasc]

I would stick with it.

[covered in blue]

Agree - I think that will be enough. If you are really anxious about it you could DTD Monday, which I think is 4 days from your last attempt (if I'm reading it right) just in case you ovulate late but I think you got it covered

[SamS_TTCPink]

I agree with covered in blue. If anxious BD again 4 days from your other attempt, but I think you have it covered. We BD Tuesday, didn't ovulate til Thursday and got my BFP!! 😊

[Jamie86]

Thanks ladies! We have a little one wide a wake scared of the neighbor's fireworks display so I don't think BDing is going to be an option. I'm glad to know that is what others would do anyway!

[Jamie86]

Oh and congrats again MumofSix!

[carmella_marie]

Stick with one attempt!!

[atomic sagebrush]

yes I"d have had you stick with one, so all good to me. Don't be too disappointed if BFN though, we may need to adjust some stuff before next month.

[Jamie86]

yes I"d have had you stick with one, so all good to me. Don't be too disappointed if BFN though, we may need to adjust some stuff before next month.

I know you have a lot of questions daily but do you have any suggestions of what you think should be adjusted? I'm definitely not doing a super "strong" sway mainly because I can't do the suggested diet (blood sugar issues) and I don't want to get to obsessed since I already have issues with OCD and anxiety but I'm definitely receptive to more suggestions.

[atomic sagebrush]

If you give me a brief synopsis of what all you did, I can tell you what I'd have you drop/tweak.