I feel a little sick so no ttc this month??

[Flava]

Ok first of all Im sooooo very disappointed I can't even say!
Im doing this since April and wanted to try this cycle and of course Im sick.
It's like I just know this will happen! I was thinking hope I don't get sick when it's time and bummm of course Im!
Anyway not a biggie a little sore throat and headache feels like a cold. DD4 is sick too.
All day mostly I feel good only feel sick on the morning. But I don't know if it will get worse or not....
So if I try I get a girl no chance for a boy? Anyone got a boy when sick with a cold?
WTH should I do now? Im so tired of diet and sups and spending money ect.
I was sick On Sunday and ok yesterday and sick again today .I don't get this.
Help me!

[swish]

Hi flava, there was another thread like this a week or so ago, some girls did have boys whilst having a cold. I think the general consensus was as long as your illness is not draining your body of nutrients, such as a vomiting bug, I doesn't matter. I hope that helps, I'm sure some boy mums will reassure you that they got pregnant whilst sick, gl!!

[kaseybaby]

Hugs Flava!

[Flava]

Hi swish thanks. The thing is Im scared that I will have another girl like this...I wold like to know if any girl mom( or boy-girl mom) got a boy being sick with a cold. I think if a boy mom got pregnant with a boy while sick is different because she only have boys ykwim?
Oh Im so sad...and I have to tell DH we can't ttc he will be angry.

[begonia]

Flava I am SO ready for you to get your attempt on but I have to say ... as much work as you have put in, I'm pretty sure that IF you got pg this month and IF it was a girl, you'd forever kick yourself for not waiting. (((HUGS))) I agree that it probably isn't going to sway since you are still taking in the right foods, etc, but if you're having any doubts I think you should wait and go for it on a month when you feel strong and ready and good about your attempt.

[Flava]

begonia_ I think the same ! For sure Im will go crazy if it's a girl and I will think because I was sick! But does it matter if Im not sick anymore when we have to dtd ??
Im so sad Im crying here ...
And who says Im not going to be sick next month? It's back to school and back to the freaking germs !
Ok I just hate this.

[zanacal]

{hugs} flava. You're on cd2 so do you have a couple of weeks before you O? Perhaps this will pass quickly with all those healthy supplements you're taking!

[DoulaMama]

Flava~ I have same thoughts as Z. If you're healthy the week leading up to O, and it's the beginning of germ season, I would go for it. It's better than crashing and burning on the diet, or putiing it off for potentially a few more months. Just my 2 cents. Hugs to you, Hun. xoxo

[Flava]

Thanks ladies.
Yeah Im on CD2 so I was thinking if Im not sick already before we have to try and not sick on ttc days and O day then it would be all ok? Or just because Im sick on starting the cycle I can't try because it will sway girl the whole cycle?
I don't know...called DH and told him...he is not happy but he said we wait if we must.
Only there is no guarantee Im not going to be sick next cycle! And no way I can't wait for months because I will only try till Febr. plus I don't think the diet and sups works if Im on it to long.

[begonia]

Flava I do agree with DM and Z ... if you're only CD 2 and you kick this cold in the next week, I'd still go for it as long as you've kept up with your "boy diet" while sick. I had a 24 hour bug 5 days before I got pg, had a fever and sore throat, but ate fine and it was gone quickly so I didn't worry about it. If I had been unable to eat I probably wouldn't have gone through with it.

See how you feel these next few days before you make the call! Are you still able to eat well right now?