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    Does this count as 1 attempt??

    Hello,

    I ´m very frustrated at the moment...my story is a bit crazy I think, but I hope someone can put my mind at ease

    My plan was to have 1 attempt at positive ovulating test as it is recommend by ttc a girl.
    We BD at positive ovulating test (prior to that my husband abstained 9 days).
    20 minutes before BD I took a lactic acid suppository. Directly after our attempt I go to the toilette and took one more lactic acid suppository ( in some way I believe that low ph can sway, so it was important for me to include it in my sway...).
    But the next day I got the feeling that all the lactic acid stuff + get up directly after BD was tooooo much and no sperm make it to the egg...I was so sad, that I thougth that way I cant get pregnant ! But I didnt want to break the 1 attempt rule at the same time...I dont know what really went on in my mind..but I thougth maybe this could help..so the next day after our attempt, I "made" that my husband ejaculated, and after he finished he goes shortly in me (sry for details..) So there were at most some droplets of sperm which came into me...
    The next day we make the same procedure again....I dont know what I m really expected from this..because it was next to nothing, but like I said a little droplet...

    And know my question : Does this count as further attempt?? Is my sway now break down because of that?

    I dont know if I m pregnant, because I m in the 2 WW .. but I m worried afterwards and peeved at me, that I m not depend on the only 1 attempt...
    First I was soo relaxed..and know it makes me crazy

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    I seriously doubt that with 2 lactic acid suppositories so close to your attempt, that any sperm survived.

    I also seriously doubt that your second attempt could have resulted in pregnancy. Third attempt would have been too little and too late as well.

    I would actualy class that as zero attempts.

    Anything is possible but it is going to be a 1 in 100 chance of conception and NO that does not count as 2 attempts.
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    Thanks atomic for your answer!

    I forget to mention that after my hsuband ejaculated (the ejaculation went in my hands..sry for details again..) I took a very very little bit on his phallus and then he went into me....may this aspect break my sway?

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    Even with people having "full loads" several times in the fertile window (sorry I know that's kind of gross) they don't always get pregnant. Again, I do not think you are very likely to conceive from all this.
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    But what if I get pregnant however ? Do you think that attempt is more blue ?

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    No, you probably recieved less sperm than people do in one regular attempt so it should count as less than one attempt and therefore be more pink.

    But please don't continue to sway pink with half attempts like this, since it cuts the odds of conception too much and you end up actually missing lots of good sway months.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pinkdreamie View Post
    But what if I get pregnant however ? Do you think that attempt is more blue ?
    I do not have the information to be able to say that.

    Worrying over it now is not going to fix it. It is what it is, at this point, and neither I nor anyone can tell you if you'd have a boy or a girl. People get boys from perfect pink sways all the time and I honestly just don't know.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eko View Post
    No, you probably recieved less sperm than people do in one regular attempt so it should count as less than one attempt and therefore be more pink.

    But please don't continue to sway pink with half attempts like this, since it cuts the odds of conception too much and you end up actually missing lots of good sway months.
    that no one should have attempts like this. It's actually worse than nothing because every good month you miss, is that much longer on diet and too many people end up stopping ovulating and having to sway blue just to get things moving again.

    We honestly don't know if it's number of sperm that sways though. We thought it was originally, but then people were having super strict sways but doing lots of attempts and were getting boys doing that. The one attempt has been a way stronger sway than the less sperm idea.

    But even with two full on attempts we still get 65% girls, it's really fine either way. Again, I consider this ZERO attempts. You may as well have taken a birth control pill. No worries.
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    Thanks for your answers atomic and eko!
    I tested today...and the test is positive! !! Oh my god!
    I dont know what to think now. .I m a bit sad because I think my sway is doomed because of my ..yes i would also say anxious/ worries and my little "attempts".
    First I also didnt think that I will get pregnant ...but I m pregnant now...
    It is very hard for me, because this is my last one. ..

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    A positive pregnancy test means that baby was meant to be!!!

    Your baby could very well be a girl. Please try not to worry.
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