if we do concieve this month its prolly a girl:'(

[nholtz87]

We went by opks an thought for sure I ovulated a few days before but instead pretty sure I ovulated yesterday since I had temp rise today. Barely an cm used preseed, an dh refused to bd the day before yesterday luckily we did bd yesterday but I feel if we do concieve itll be a girl an im already sad

45d9b0 Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com

[XXforhubby]

If you were on the HE diet and moderately exercising, I wouldn't worry about it. I didn't know anything about swaying and led a classic boy lifestyle. We only BDed once in my fertile window with DS2 and he is definitely a boy!!

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[nholtz87]

I was eating more calories an no wasnt exercising. I was using preseed. And eating more variety and no low fat like I usually do. But knowing my luck I will get pregnant and itll be a girl. I just wanted to feel like our family was complete an have a son with dh.
I mean do I even have a prayer for a boy if I wasnt exercising or following he diet exactly? I was drinking lemon water. Ugh idk im so sad right now. If only dh woulda put out the night before last

[XXforhubby]

Hang in there sweetie! You have a good chance at having a boy! Even if you swayed your hardest, an opposite could still happen. I would suspend all judgement until you know for sure what you are having. Prepare for another DD just in case!

FWIW, my DH would love to be in your shoes! He has always longed for a DD! I'll give you some of my blue baby dust (I'm currently pregnant with DS3), for some of your pink baby dust!! We are going to TTC again for baby #4 after this little guy is born!

Hugs sweetie!!! Remember, no sway is ever perfect but the little baby growing in your tummy sure is [emoji8]!!

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[atomic sagebrush]

You always have a chance of a boy. Please don't despair, it is completely possible to get a boy at any point in time.

[nholtz87]

U can have all my pink dust lol an im sure if I had all or mostly boys id want a girl. Idk if ill even get pregnant this cycle from our bd times, I guess we shall see.
Do u guys happen to know what time of day ppl normally ovulate ?

[XXforhubby]

People can ovulate anytime of the day actually. It is hard to pin point even with temping.


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[Quinn31]

I'm in a similar situation. Since af showed 5 days ago, I haven't been following the HE like I normally do. I forgot my V8 a few days and didn't always have protein with my carbs. I ate more cakes and refined carbs than I usually do too. I'm nervous that if I get pregnant this month, I'll have a girl too. I'm going to go hard core HE again now and hope the past 6 weeks of HE will help.


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[nholtz87]

Hopefully we both get pregnant an get the gender we want. Or atleast really healthy babies

[atomic sagebrush]

I'm in a similar situation. Since af showed 5 days ago, I haven't been following the HE like I normally do. I forgot my V8 a few days and didn't always have protein with my carbs. I ate more cakes and refined carbs than I usually do too. I'm nervous that if I get pregnant this month, I'll have a girl too. I'm going to go hard core HE again now and hope the past 6 weeks of HE will help.


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I can guarantee ya that most of us all-boy moms had days where we did not have V8 or ate mostly carbs and still got boys.

Swaying (at least on Gender Dreaming with HE/LE Diets) is NOT "you must eat this perfectly and never screw up even the slightest thing or you'll have an opposite" . I know that's what the "mineral diets" train people to believe but IT IS NOT THE CASE. All we are doing wtih our diets is trying to optimize our odds. It does not MATTER if you do everything and certainly not everything perfectly all the time, you're just trying to move in the "boy" diretion from where you were before. You may get a boy if you do only 10% of the diet stuff. THe HE Diet is just a goal to aim for and not a "must do all these things or get a girl" Very very few (if any) of us boy moms did EVERYTHING in the HE Diet, just do what you personally can do.