Stupid DH has a friend in town for one night. Whenever this guy is in town, DH goes out partying with him. I couldn't talk him out of it, and asking DH to "just have a few" when he's out with this guy is like asking a dog not to bark.
How bad is one night of excessive drinking for DH's sperm count?
Anyway, I feel like I am being told by some higher power not to TTC this cycle! Every time I think I have ironed out one kink, another thing happens. I am getting SO FRUSTRATED!
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September 27th, 2011, 11:50 PM #1
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Will one night of partying ruin everything?
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September 28th, 2011, 12:58 AM #2
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I honestly do not think one night will do any harm, as long as it is just one night. xxxx Can understand your upset though because I would be too LOL
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September 28th, 2011, 05:33 AM #3
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I personally don't think it will ruin anything, he doesn't normally drink like that so once in a while isn't a problem. I do understand how you feel about trying this month, I was meant to start trying from May and I keep chickening out because of some excuse. My husband has just had enough of me saying I'll always have an excuse every month so I told him most likely will just go for it at the end of the month. Good Luck
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September 28th, 2011, 07:40 AM #4
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I agree with girls, one night probably won't do any harm + this cycle he will be releasing older sperm. If you are worried about number and motility, boost him with some extra Co-Q 10 and l-carnitine.
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September 28th, 2011, 08:54 AM #5
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I think one night will be fine and it's not worth upsetting yourself or DH over. IMO if you're working hard on you just go w/ DH as much as he is willing. Then don't stress. There have been a lot of successful sways without the DH doing anything. Just make him boy meals and focus on you
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September 28th, 2011, 09:04 AM #6
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ITA with all of these replies....just let him go have fun and don't worry about it.
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September 28th, 2011, 01:45 PM #7
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Thanks ladies! He did drink a bit, but actually came home early and wasn't absolutely wasted, so I call that a WIN!
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September 28th, 2011, 05:42 PM #8
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Aww he must have had the sway in mind!!
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September 28th, 2011, 06:45 PM #9
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Well, I think it was more that he had to work today.... but we can give him the benefit of the doubt! Originally Posted by TTC5
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September 28th, 2011, 07:26 PM #10
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Oh hahaha!! Oh well either way he was a good boy and did as he was asked, lol
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