Let's talk about BD :wink:

[Tali.kah]

Hello ladies !!! I thought this topic deserves a thread!
Let's talk about BD!!


Boy moms- what has been your go to pattern?
Successful swayers- what technique did you use?
Future swayers- what are you going to do?
Failed sways- what do you wish you did different?

I noticed from reading the forums there's 3 different blue sway tactics when it comes to BD

1) on attempt month just have regular every 2-4 day unprotected BD from AF onwards to allow regular exposure of sperm which naturally raises PH and has been known to sway blue.

2) ensure DH has regular 2-4 day release via other methods and by having protected BD until you get a positive OPK then do unprotected the night of positive OPK, unprotected the next morning and night, and atleast one more unprotected the next night.

3) Same as number 2 BUT the week your guessing you'll O based on your cycle just start having unprotected BD every 2-4 days and then make sure the 3 attempts are there around the positive OPK.

The big O:
Some people also suggest having the big O yourself before BD to make your environment more blue friendly, some suggest having the big O before DH during BD, some say to have the big O after DH.

Extra things:
Baking soda finger? Preseed? Mucinex?

Let's get talking

[atomic sagebrush]

please bump this for me, it's a bit involved

[Tali.kah]

please bump this for me, it's a bit involved

Off course !!!! I'm such a newbie though... how do I bump? I hope me commenting like this generates a bump?

[atomic sagebrush]

In this thread tons of us have shared our experiences and I thought you may get way more info from this than a few of us chiming in. https://genderdreaming.com/forum/try...-our-boys.html

The only difference between the methods you describe are that some people want timing and others don't. Personally I and many of the boy moms got our boys with regular unprotected sex every 2-4 days or so and then attempts in the fertile window when we were TTC.

Orgasms are here: https://genderdreaming.com/forum/gen...s-swaying.html

I am not a fan of baking soda at all. Preseed and guanefesin may help