Hi I’ve read the essay about timing. But have questions about timing. When we are going to ttc DH is going to be 42/43 years old. He is very very fit. He never drink alcohol or smoke or ate pork in his life. With ds1 & ds2 we conceived immediately. I’m thinking about abstaining (7 days) is that a good idea?
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December 10th, 2017, 11:47 AM #1
Question about abstaining
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DS3 January 2020 - endometriosis - DH low motility
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December 10th, 2017, 12:14 PM #2
It's not recommended for men over 35 to abstain. Thread about it here
Atomic also updated the essay on number of attempts (5th post down) in which she states she's found that abstain and FR are not getting good results for pink, just the one attempt.'12
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FET #2 August 2022: 1 HBAA XX - BFP!
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December 10th, 2017, 01:39 PM #3
No. Here's an essay that will explain why (and I just updated it, too!) http://genderdreaming.com/forum/tryi...over-35-a.html
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December 10th, 2017, 01:40 PM #4
LOL ks we posted the same thing! Thank you!
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December 10th, 2017, 02:01 PM #5
Ok,thanks ! I’ve also read that for a girl I must use the last batch& have protected bd. I’m worrying I’ll sway boy because my husband don’t want to to protected and don’t want to help himself and always wants to come inside me . Can I still sway girl with every 4 days UNprotected BD?
DS1 2010
DS2 2012
DS3 January 2020 - endometriosis - DH low motility
Due Date 23.08.2021
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December 10th, 2017, 02:02 PM #6
Every 4 day method is meant to be unprotected
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December 10th, 2017, 02:41 PM #7
Yes BD unprotected every 4 days has been a good pink sway for us - just wrote a how to in this thread, a few posts down http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...pink-blue.html
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December 10th, 2017, 04:31 PM #8Dream User
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to be clear, for a girl BD every 4 days from start of period? since this is day 1 cycle does that mean BD Day 4, 8, 12, 16, 20, 24, 30 etc.....?
and to BD also when positive Ovulation test?
Does this lower sperm count and lower chance conception? I really wanna sway pink however i also really want to conceive straight away ... Thank you
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December 10th, 2017, 08:49 PM #9
In this thread (last post in the series of posts at the beginning I just posted a writeup that should answer your questions. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...pink-blue.html
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December 11th, 2017, 06:12 AM #10Dream User
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Thanks Atomic.. i have just read your other forum post.
Reading what it mentions about lots of sex or no sex and how single mums have daughters...
to be totally clear, this means you should have no sex at all from day 1 / start of period / cycle until Ovulation day?
But doesnt this conflict with the BD every 4 days to get a girl?
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