Hi ladies hope you're all fine and well and good luck to all who are TTC this month,
Ladies I really need your thoughts on this, I have this dilemma which is eating at me at the moment, basically I am taking the whole high nutrition approach to my sway but I also looked into biorhythms and the chinese gender predictor and even the lunar moon phases thing.
The chinese gender predictor was right for both my daughters and apparently this time round it says December and January are the only boy months I get - not much choice right??
well its gets worse - according to my fertility chart I am due to ovulate on the 24th of December, the chinese prediction calendar predicts girl and only changes on the 22nd of December to predicting boy. Then to further complicate things my biorhythms for boy zone are 12th to 24th December. But then the moon angle around ovulation is only boy on the 23rd and 24th December too. It all pinpoints to this one day the 24th of December, where all conditions are met, there is no other day I will have this.
I know it sounds crazy but its freaking me out big time!!!! because what if I don't get pregnant or don't ovulate that mean I've lost my chance and all this conditions beyond my control will mean I can only have girls after that? I know I shouldn't take it seriously but its so hard not to to have such high hopes when all the signs are pointing to that one day by which according to each condition says its the PERFECT day for a baby boy to be conceived. I feel so much pressure - how do you decide what to give priority to in these secondary aspects of the sway. Do they mean much to people in general?
Maybe I should do the bd on the 23rd and the 24th but then what about the cut off days thing? Is the timing more important or frequency more important? How much gap shall I leave? Ultimately I suppose it boils down to when I ovulate 24th is the predicted day. That day is so fixed in my mind right now, feels like I have an exam that day or something. gosh I just hope I ovulate on time and in line with those dates. I feel so much pressure. Anyway thank you for listening.
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November 1st, 2011, 08:40 PM #1
Finding the perfect day to TTC a baby boy
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November 1st, 2011, 10:21 PM #2
Personally I do not take too much notice in these and definately would not put of ttc based on them. FWIW the calender was wrong for ALL four of my girls
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November 2nd, 2011, 01:21 AM #3Dream Vet
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I know how your feeling, i was the same, i was obsessed with conceiving with only my lunar calendar & i couldnt let it go & i to only had very limited months ttc a boy, only 3 months this yr, i was just lucky to get it spot on this month.
I really think when its out of your control then its not meant to be & maybe by you avoiding certain months just may have been your chance go conceive a boy, i know its hard to let go of something you really believe in, but sometimes we just cant control when we ovulate.
GLDd1Dd2
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November 2nd, 2011, 03:43 AM #4
When are you due to ovulate?
The Chinese charts have been wrong for my kids, I have checked the other things you mentioned.
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November 2nd, 2011, 07:29 AM #5Dream Vet
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Try babyworld gender predictor, it has been right 4 me, my 2 sisters & my gf.
Dd1Dd2
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November 2nd, 2011, 07:57 AM #6
I just tried that and it told me I should have B B G B B
I can't remember my exact conceptions so worked it out based on EDD from LMP. Some of the conceptions were close to another month like the 1st or 2nd or the 30th of the month, so tried the other closest month and results were G G B B B
If I fall pregnant this month according to that I will have a girl.
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November 2nd, 2011, 08:21 AM #7
Hi ladies thanks for the replies, I'm ovulating now and due to ovulate around the 24th of December according to fertility friend, I have a average 27 day cycle length, it just that its really hard to ignore all these extra things that are on the internet when you're trying to find the answer to something so personal. Its hard to ignore when you see the answer girl on their calculators and calendars. This is the chinese gender calendar I used because you can put your birth date in it and specific days of conception:
http://www.chinesefortunecalendar.com/PredictSex.htm
Here are the other links too:
http://www.moonsigncalendar.net/moon...011&zeitzone=0
http://www.astro.com/cgi/genchart.cgi?&lang=e&gm=a2
I guess I just need to rein myself in a bit and believe in myself and what I'm doing physically is more important than any thing calculated on a screen right?
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November 2nd, 2011, 08:28 AM #8
The first link results for me were
GGBGB
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November 2nd, 2011, 08:34 AM #9
I entered conception dates, is that right? results were GBBBG
DD - the moon sign was/is: Cancer ♀ phase of the moon: Waxing Moon
DS - the moon sign was/is: Aries ♂ phase of the moon: Waxing Moon
DD - the moon sign was/is: Aries ♂ phase of the moon: Waxing Moon
DD - the moon sign was/is: Sagittarius ♂ phase of the moon:Waning Moon
DD - the moon sign was/is: Pisces ♀ phase of the moon: Waning Moon
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November 2nd, 2011, 08:35 AM #10
Not sure what to do on the astro chart one.