So just as I expected. Boy #4 for us. Roller coaster of emotions for me. It changes from moment to moment.
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December 3rd, 2011, 09:30 PM #1
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Boy #4 for us.
2006 2007 2009 
due May 2012
BFP at 11 dpo.
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December 3rd, 2011, 09:41 PM #2
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Awe sweetie....sorry you didn't hear pink! But hopefully he is healthy and he will be a wonderful addition to your family!
"All because 2 people fell in love"
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2007 & 2009 
2010 Evan Daniel....fought hydrops for 4 long weeks then I said "it is ok to go now"
gone but never forgotten
5/7/2012 He is finally here!!! 
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December 3rd, 2011, 09:50 PM #3
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Aww Im sorry you didnt hear girl, I really hope you can warm up to it before he's born, all the very best.
Im sure your sons will be happy having another bro!! I had the best childhood growing up with 3 sisters.Dd1
Dd2 
& OMG Im 
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December 3rd, 2011, 10:11 PM #4
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sorry hun,
i know what it was like when i found out i was having boy number 4.
it took every bit if strength i had not to burst into tears right there on the ultrasound table.
it took a few weeks , but i adjusted , and now hes my whole world..
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December 3rd, 2011, 11:10 PM #5
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Hope the rollercoaster stops soon and you find yourself in a place of happiness with it. ((HUGS))
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December 3rd, 2011, 11:50 PM #6
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Big hugs hun xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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December 4th, 2011, 03:03 AM #7
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I'm sorry for the darkness you're going through; hope you can allow yourself to grieve.
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December 4th, 2011, 03:12 AM #8
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I´m sorry you didn´t hear pink shouldihope, I´ve read your sway, you really did everything you could have.
I hope you´ll be in peace with it at some point and be able to enjoy
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December 4th, 2011, 12:16 PM #9
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I could not sleep last night. Laid in bed and cried. All I could think is if we just had 2 we could travel or go to Disneyworld, instead of struggling financially. All because I was greedy and selfish and kept forcing it. Don't get me wrong I adore Ds3 but he is challenging. Ds2 has behavior issues as well as other issues. Every day is a challenge with him. Ds1 is stuck being the responsible one that will likely get lost in the shuffle with another one. I am the only person I know of IRL that will have 4 boys and no girl. I wish I could hide out from the world so I dont have to fake it.
2006 2007 2009 due May 2012
BFP at 11 dpo.
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December 4th, 2011, 02:27 PM #10
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Maybe #2 and #3 will step up to the plate a bit more when there's a baby in the house. They'll love him and love to feel themselves a little closer to the "grown ups" in the house if they can help you fetch diapers or binkies or blankets. I know it's hard to imagine, but there could be positive changes in store for the family dynamic when 3 becomes 4 (I speak as someone with 4 of the other kind, whose #2 was also very challenging, and shaped up quite a lot when her sisters were born). Anyway, I just wanted to send wishes that these good things are in store for you...even if they're not the good things you were hoping for.
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