FR Concern

[4 blues~hopingforpink~]

I remember doing FR when I conceived my boys. We DTD quite a bit Prob once or twice a day. Was not doing anything to sway though. Would it be better to have DH abstain and then do a one time shot?

[4 blues~hopingforpink~]

Bump

[atomic sagebrush]

I remember doing FR when I conceived my boys. We DTD quite a bit Prob once or twice a day. Was not doing anything to sway though. Would it be better to have DH abstain and then do a one time shot?

How old is DH?? If he's under 35, I think abstain + 1 shot can be a good sway tactic.

Remember, frequent release does not necessarily mean frequent BD. You can have DH release on his own and still only do one attempt.

[suregena]

I'm doing a whole looooot of frequent BD (but it's the opposite of what we did with my boy!) so hopefully I don't regret it, but I just want to get pregnant!

[atomic sagebrush]

Anyone who's been going for several months and not conceiving, NEEDS to do more BD!!

I'm liking that temp rise on your chart today Suregena!!

[suregena]

Anyone who's been going for several months and not conceiving, NEEDS to do more BD!!

I'm liking that temp rise on your chart today Suregena!!

Really?! I am SO glad to hear that! I am pretty poor at chart reading--I have a rough idea... i.e. dips/rises and so on, but I haven't been at the temp-taking thing very long... it's still quite new to me.

I keep getting negative OPKs but it just might be the hours I'm able to test... maybe I'm going to or have missed my surge? I've been feeling like I've got mild menstrual cramps for two days!

Well, fingers crossed. We've BD'd 8(!!!!) times... the 9th time is tonight! We started because I was worried about my husband not being around when I got an LH surge... surge hasn't come (yet? Or maybe it did?) so we just continued on. I'm surprised he's still going! :x If I get pregnant this cycle, I'll be convinced it's a boy. Geez! Although we definitely didn't BD like this with our son... not at all, nor was he much of a frequent releaser. We'll see.

I'm rambling now... :P Thanks for the chart-spotting, atomic!

[atomic sagebrush]

It's hard to know what's REALLY going on because you can def. miss the surge with OPK and then you also can have weird temps - you'll probably know in a few days, if your temps stay up.

I know NBP got girls 3 times BD every day for many days in a row!!

[4 blues~hopingforpink~]

How old is DH?? If he's under 35, I think abstain + 1 shot can be a good sway tactic.

Remember, frequent release does not necessarily mean frequent BD. You can have DH release on his own and
still only do one attempt.

Thanks for ALL the info.. He's 28, were 3 years apart me being the oldest.

[suregena]

It's hard to know what's REALLY going on because you can def. miss the surge with OPK and then you also can have weird temps - you'll probably know in a few days, if your temps stay up.

I know NBP got girls 3 times BD every day for many days in a row!!

Fingers crossed, we'll see! I keep feeling *mildly* excited to see what my temp will be each morning... how funny! He frequent released at least once but mostly at least twice starting CD5 and we began BDing (and most of the time he releases in the daytime during the BD days) on CD13.

I just asked him just now, "Did you release today at all?" (he didn't yesterday because he was busy but we still BD'd)
He said, "Yeah!"
I said, "Oh, really? Thanks!"
He said, "You're... welcome. It was nice!"

Hahah. Men.

[4 blues~hopingforpink~]

Would it be likely that I ovulate on day 14 if my periods jump around every few months?