Ok. So I think dh is pretty much on board to ttc one more time. He is thinking Nov, Dec and into Jan 2013. I'm thinking I just turned 37 a few days ago and got my first ppaf last night, so maybe I should sneak in an attempt when I O this month. Is that a horrible thing to do? I'm feeling a little guilty for thinking this, but at the same time it will take the stress out of it and with 1 attempt there's a good chance I won't get pregnant. What do you think? I sound so shady...
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July 20th, 2012, 04:35 PM #1
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Is this a terrible thing to do???
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July 20th, 2012, 04:53 PM #2
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I think DH should know.
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July 20th, 2012, 07:51 PM #3
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I think you should maybe aim for a comprise--maybe start trying in Sept? with one attempt? That's how I got my husband into letting me attempt in Nov (though it was a BFN) was that I explained we'd only try once around O time and see what happened. Explain how you feel about age etc, I'm happy to hear is on board to TTC now!
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July 20th, 2012, 08:47 PM #4
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Nope, it's not so bad
A little blessing that you were planning on anyway.
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July 20th, 2012, 11:38 PM #5
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I think your DH should know.
Yes you think have agreed on another - but are yet to decide when.
Speak to him about your concerns and try and get him to understand..
It just doesn't seem open and honest and therefore right to *me* but i know women do it, so if your conscious is ok with it then go for itMummy to DS10 who is the light of our world
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Please be a sticky little bean, we have wished and hoped for you for so long xo
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in May 2013 and thats ok, we're head over heels in love with him and feel blessed to be honoured with 2 sons
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July 20th, 2012, 11:41 PM #6
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One sneaked attempt doesn't compare to me dipping my OPKs in water after my M/C. But I apologized to God every time I had to lie to my husband. My little one was meant to be! I did what I had to do personally..
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July 21st, 2012, 07:33 AM #7
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Thanks ladies. I appreciate the feedback. I think I'm going to talk about it with him tonight. We're going out for dinner. Not a great topic to talk about when you're out without children, but the only time in the near future we will get a chance to be alone. Af is going full force today and I'd rather stay home tonight, but I think I'll be ok once we get out. Butterfly, I like the "dipping opk's in water" idea. And God forgives you...lol!! Auroara, thanks for the support. Lovely site filled with amazing women. I speak about you all often to my husband. My internet bff's....hahahahaha.
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